Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by JaxFlJon, Apr 10, 2005.
I had anal sex with my gf and I made her anus bleed... Bad preping? Too big? uhh thoughts/opinions?
First of all, probably not too big, unless you've got a footlong with the girth of a midget's neck.
Secondly, it's probably a case of not enough lube/prep.
In any case, I would give her about a week to heal.
p.s. are you sure she wasn't bleeding down there already?
edit: that last part was supposed to be a joke. haha! I was trying to insinuate that your gf had some wierd std. a friend of mine read it, and she didn't get the joke either. oh well. at least I thought it was funny!
She wasnt bleeding before... more lube and round 2
More lube, and take it slow
rectal tissue is very prone to tearing (hence why everyone uses a ton of lube, as well as it doens't lube itself). talk to the girl, did it actualy physically hurt her? how much? did she not even notice? talk to her. if you decide to do it again, take more time, use more lube, get her more relaxed.
lol ouch, that had to suck. was she pissed?
the anus is a muscle and like all muscles it needs prep...
step 1: start by putting one finger in but not all the way and let it sit...dont forget lube...then put it in all the way and kinda turn it....
next....put 2 in there and repeat step 1...after her asshole has opened enough...
put your cock in there slowly...just let the head get in there and slowly try to go deeper...after her asshole has loosened up enough to the point where it doesnt hur her...
than you can go all out if you want