Am I the only male who does not enjoy pornography?

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  1. SkyLeach

    SkyLeach Guest

    I do not enjoy pornography.

    This is not to say that I find the female body unattractive in pictures and film, far from it. But what I mean when I say pornography is that anything I have ever seen from the back room has always contained men and women performing the sex act without the underlying love, or even the facsimile of sensuality, to make it erotic to me.

    To my way of thinking, it's like viewing the human body without a soul. When a person looks at a corpse (not a picture, which is totally different) but a corpse wherever it may lie, there is something visceral that tells them it is a tragedy. Something has gone out of that body and it is no longer even remotely human. It doesn't matter that its shaped like a human with all of the features, it simply is not human.

    For me, pornography is the same. The participants are not mutually enjoying the act. I make no distinction here between one person enjoying and one not, for either situation is a vulgar misrepresentation of the act of love in my estimation.

    I even go so far as to say that I can sense, for I have no better term for it, the genuine nature of masturbation in video. To this point I only refer to female masturbation since I have never watched, nor do I have any desire to watch, a man in this capacity. I have seldom seen a woman performing masturbation in film without knowing, perhaps by something in her manner, that she isn't doing it for her own enjoyment. I have seen a woman masturbate and enjoy the act on film before, but only once that I remember. I found this to be highly erotic.

    I am not judging those of you who do enjoy it. If you like watching pornography then feel free to say why you do without feeling your position threatened by me.

    Comments on this subject are welcome.
     
  2. Improvolone

    Improvolone New Member

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    If you were to watch porn, would you get an erection?
     
  3. Yukonart

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    For some of us guys, porn is humorous to the last second. Seriously, I laugh when I watch it because it's usually pretty rediculous. Sure, some of the visuals are cool, but the acts themselves don't do much for me, aside from giving me some ideas to try on my GF later. :naughty:
     
  4. SkyLeach

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    Unless it shows some nature of love, no. In fact, in the absense of love, it has done quite the opposite and destroyed any sense of arousal I may have had before watching it.
     
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    I agree with this man!
     
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    I will also raise my hand to show that I am a man that does not enjoy pornography.

    I have watched maybe a handful of porn films and never once enjoyed it. I watched in hopes that I might figure out what is so atractive to other people about watching it, I saw nothing for me.

    I will go ahead and answer the arousal question.
    Yes, I have had an erection while viewing porn, but that's because I am attracted to women and when they are in certain clothing, well it happens. ;)

    I did get into watching a few episodes of Flesh Gordon, just because I found it hilarious, and wanted to see just how badly they could mess up a story line like that.

    SkyLeach I do agree with you though, there's no intimacy involved, which is probably the point. ;) LOL
     
  7. XsLiCk

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    agreed
     
  8. Improvolone

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    There have abeen a ton of tests where adult males and females were hooked up to a series of doodads that measured arousal, and the vast majority of both sexes, wether they were concious of it or not, were physicaly turned on my watch porn.
     
  9. JordanClarkson

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    the point of porn is to show penetration. that requires weird angles that doesn't allow you to get that close or intimate
     
  10. I never much cared for Internet porn I'd guess that 80 percent of porn sites con people into believing that the pictures that they see on their web site are real pictures of people posing or engaging in sexual activity.

    people with expensive macs come to real xxx communities to steal pictures, body parts whatever they find useful and modify the faces as well as body parts to look a Lil bit different then what they originally were.

    For example:: lets Say that some chick with a excellent looking Bod and a butt ugly looking face posted a picture of herself butt naked on a web forum, the E thieves would steal her pic cut out her face and then attach someone else es face to go with her body it doesn't take much talent to modify the face to look a tad different then the person that they stole it from.

    I like to watch real porn Girl on Girl can't stand fake Internet porn.
     
  11. Problematique

    Problematique New Member

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    I don't enjoy it. I just don't see what the deal is, especially when you're not sad and lonely, and you have a gf....

    It is hilarious though, gotta admit.
     
  12. Killa B

    Killa B Abuse This!

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    I could kinda see why, I enjoy some porn mostly girl on girl, but I get grossed out when I see a girls asshole, it just turns me off. I'll do anal on a girl, but I don't like seein that shit
     
  13. orie

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    you're gay :noes:
     
  14. trigger-hippy

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    Am I the only male who does enjoy porn?
    Sex and love do not need to go hand in hand for me.
    And on the subject of if she's enjoying it or not, if she is that's good. If she isn't but is pretending she is that bores me. If she isn't enjoying it and isn't trying to act like she is that's good with me.
     
  15. antihero

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    umm.. then get amateur porn made by real couples?

    I HATE highly edited, slickly produced, retouched porn too.. Thats why there is all kinds out there.

    I love good porn though.
     
  16. minitruck_freq

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    a buddy of mine has over 500 porn dvd's. i think he likes it TOO much. :)
     
  17. wilyfem

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    :bigthumb: you are a breath of fresh air on a message board that is 90% made up of men who disrespect women.
     
  18. RedVsBlue

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    Yea Ive never been big on porn. Its more funny, and so fake that it gives a false sense about sex. I need nothing more than a thought of my SO to turn me on, anything else doesnt deserve my arousal.
     

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