ok so i been hooking up with this girl and she wants to date but i had to leave town for a week. her phone broke so i couldnt call her while i was gone. anyway when i get back she tells me about getting drunk and hooking up with another guy. i told her that i wont put up with that and that the furtherest our relationship can go is as friends (not friends with benefits because imo friends do not kiss). now she is all pissed off at me and tries to make me out to be the bad guy by saying that i tried to change her when truthfully i love her the way she is. btw i should add this is the second time she has done this (first time was a while back) and i was stupid enough to forgive her the first time and believe it wouldnt happen again. am i so wrong for letting her go like this? why is she getting mad at me for HER mistake?