I think this was totally rude, but i want your opinions. maybe i am totally off base here. I come home after work. my boyfriend is asleep on my couch. he has been taking a lot of naps lately, not sure why he is so tired. He wakes up and I head to the kitchen to put away groceries. I come back out and he has gone to my bedroom, where he is now lying in my bed. he says he is still tired. Im a little bugged cause i just got home and all. We talk while he is laying down and he kinda stops talking so i thought he fell back asleep so i leave the room. ten minutes or so later, he comes out of my room and we sit and watch some tv. Later on he admits that he didnt go back to sleep, he just masturbated then got up. Is it totally rude that he comes over to my place (we dont live together but he does spend a lot of time here, has his own key), then masturbates in my bed while im sitting in the other room waiting for him to get up so we can spend time together? I think its rude. I also felt left out, like why did he chose masturbating over sex with me. its not like I wouldve turned him down, sex has been very hot lately. but my biggest frustration really is with him jacking off at my place while im just sitting in the other room. i think it would be totally different if we lived together or were married, but we dont and we arent. he thinks im just crazy and making a big deal out of nothing. if you think so too, then i will apologize to him.