Okay, so this might be a bit long... I just found out that my best girlfriend for the last 15 years is pregnant. That's not what's upsetting (I'm really super excited for her, it's her first baby and first pregnancy after a miscarriage last year). I tell this woman EVERYTHING, she's my daughter's Godmom, I was the Matron of Honor at her wedding, I've always been there for her and we always share important things together despite long distance seperations (she lives in SC, I currently live in WA) over the last 13 years of our friendship. But I think we're still just as close as ever. Or at least, I thought we were Here's what's upsetting: I didn't find out about her pregnancy through her. I found out through a stupid status update of her husband's on facebook The kicker? She's far enough along that she knows the sex (which you can't typically do until 18+weeks). That's what the stupid status even said "I just found out I'm going to have a daughter". Do I have the right to be hurt by this? I know that because of the miscarriage last year, she's been very gunshy, however, this is the woman who's my child's Godmom. She was the first person aside from my family that I called and told that I was pregnant when I got pregnant with my daughter. I've shared every important moment in my life with her, as she has with me. And now, suddenly, I'm blindsided. Am I justified in being hurt? Or am I just being a brat and need to get over it?