OK, im kinda seeing this girl or was for like 3.5 years...whatever! Its a weird relationship. On the 5th, she called me ~9 asking me if i wanted to go eat with her. Sure, why not...i wanna see you. So she picks me up and ask where do i wanna go. I said well, im not going to eat, im not that hungry (plus i was broke), she was like you just cant NOT eat. I mentioned this one place and we went there. It was 9:30 and they close at 10:00. Since she was the only one that was going to be really eating, i figured it would be a nice dinner. When we walk in, shes like they close soon and asks the lady "are you guys still sitting people?' The lady seems kinda hesitant to seat us, and i dont feel like searching for a place to eat at 9:30, so i butt in with "its only 9:30, they still have a half hour." They seat us and shes like you dont gotta be rude We kinda dabble on about it, but dropped the whole issue soon after. So she orders all this food (like always) and tells me to eat some, so i do. We talk yada yada yada and the check comes, and she pays for it (leaves a good tip since it was closing soon) and we leave. As we pull up to my house, i ask if she wants to come inside and hang out for a bit (like we normally do) but she says no and leaves. The next day i thought she would have called, but didnt. After one day of not talking to her my phone was turned off for the following 2-3 day, so i wasnt too sure if she tried to call. So i got up early on Monday morning JUST to send her a text message (through tmobiles website...phone still off). I told her i got up early to wish her goodluck and that i missed her I wasnt too sure if she got it, so i got my phone turned on the next day and called and left a voice message saying "hey, i havent talked to you in a while, my phones been messed up. I really miss you and would like to talk you, maybe we can get together tonight, so give me a call Havent talked to her since. Usually she would have called by now. Should i feel bad? Should i send her another txt msg or call? Im just wondering if I am the one who is wrong here.