am i doing to much

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  1. the_tinman

    the_tinman New Member

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    as you guys have seen my post im going through a divorce. i guess i could say im being a good person by letting her stay here for 2 weeks so she could transfer to a store down by where she lives. but there is so much tension between us and its getting way uncomfortable for me. not only that im waiting on the divorce till she gets into the airforce .
    the little devil says send her ass home fuck it she made her bed make her sleep in it.
    the angle says just let her do what shes doing she going to do it reguardless if you feel hurt or not just let it roll off your back

    what do you guys and gals think ???

    edited to add things
    the main reason i dont want to give her the boot just yet is that my little one is here and i dont want to do that and have my ex tell her down the line that i kicked them out cause i didnt want them there. i lovbe my little girl to death but the ex is causing me to feel uncomfortable and i cant enjoy my time with my daughter .
     
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    ledzep73 New Member

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    Don't put up with shit from a woman that you aren't in a relationship with. What good will come of it?
     
  3. the_tinman

    the_tinman New Member

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    this is true
     
  4. ww_Crimson

    ww_Crimson New Member

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    If its your house, its your rules. Tell her you're extending a courtesy to her that most other people wouldn't. She has 2 weeks to grow up and get out.
     
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    she's not doing you any favors, why do her any? kick her out!
     
  6. TurboLagIs4Play

    TurboLagIs4Play New Member

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    I think that if she screwed you over and if it's completely YOUR house, you have every reason to kick her ass out. BUT, if y'all's kid lives with you, then it may just be easier for the time being to put up with her shit until she moves/goes into the Air Force. All IMHO.
     
  7. CodeX

    CodeX Guest

    If you have a little girl together, do everything you can to maintain a civil relationship with her. Try to stay out of court, mutually agree to shared custody. Be adults, if she is acting like a child treat her like a child but don't kick the mother of your daughter out on the street with no where to go.

    I was raised by my father. Him and my mother were divorced when I was really young, they were able to be maintain a civil relationship and share custody (I would stay with my mother all summer, and stay with my father during the school year). If they had had a bitter hatred of each other it would have been far harder for me. Just think of your daughter, not of yourself
     
  8. Protoman

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    Tough it out for your kiddo and when you start getting upset just remember that she is the reason you are putting up with it. Take care
     
  9. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    Are you going to go through any custody battles with her?
     
  10. the_tinman

    the_tinman New Member

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    no custody battle here
     
  11. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    i dont understand why you are waiting to get the divorce?
     
  12. the_tinman

    the_tinman New Member

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    you cant get into the Airforce/military if you a single parent
     
  13. dabru

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    i agree
     
  14. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    What happens to your daughter when your ex goes into the airforce? If you get her, I'd def hold off on kicking your ex out.

    You said no custody battle, what arrangements have been made for your kid?
     
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    jmx2323 OT Supporter

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    i was gonna say that...you can not join if you are single and have custody of a child, to join she will have to give that up
     
  16. the_tinman

    the_tinman New Member

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    i can see her when ever i want no questions asked
     

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