Background: I've been with my current girl friend for over a year. It is a long distance relationship. She lives about 80 miles from me, but she drives up and stays with me every weekend and sometimes during the week. (I'm 23 she is 20) This girl is awesome. She is so devoted and so in love with me. It has made coming to this decision very hard. I really don't want to hurt her. I love her, but it feels like I'm not in love with her anymore if that makes sense. I told her last night that I needed a break from the relationship to figure out why I don't feel right. As cliche as it sounds she kept asking if she did something wrong, but all I could say is "no it's something with me." I feel like I'm being suffocated. She doesn't have any friends anymore she only comes up to hang out with me. I can't handle the constant phone calls where we talk about nothing for a hour. I'm so disengaged that I'll just sit there and listen to her talk. I've started realizing how unfair it is to her and all. I've never had to break off a relationship where there wasn't a whole lot wrong with the other person. Normally something happens and I end it or I get broke up with. At any rate I haven't been able to eat in a week and I can't sleep either. I woke up this morning feeling so strange. I know she is hurting so bad and it makes me feel like such a horrible person. I just feel like throwing up. It's sunday now and normally she is here, but now I'm alone in my room and I don't know what to do with myself. Anyone have some advice for me? Or just some insight. I'm dieing over here.