Am I being too uptight?

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  1. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    The girl I am dating used to do x, maryjane, and has tried other stuff... me on the other hand haven't even smoked a cigarette. Am I being too anal when I say I wouldn't want to date you anymore if you did valium?

    its sorta an altimatum (sp?)

    what do you guys think?
     
  2. P7

    P7 You have something on your tongue, let me get that

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  3. kronik85

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    my ex ex girlfriend was really into the drug scene before i dated her. she met up with some old friends, got back into it (she was pretty clean while we dated for a month or so). she spiraled down and ended up od'n one night and goign to the hospital. never told me. i broke up with her the next day. drugs can be pretty ugly. you're not being too anal. you just dont want to be put in that situation and she can respect that. if she doesn't and continues to use, then wish he well and say bye bye.
     
  4. timberwolf

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    Fixed.

    And no you're not being too anal.
     
  5. Ghostaz0r

    Ghostaz0r With my ego, I can stand there in a Speedo, and be

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    You're not too anal. Ecstacy and Valium is some hardcore shit.

    I'd draw the line at anything more than alcohol or weed probably.
     
  6. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Does it effect your relationship, or do you just not like the fact she does them? How can you judge her and talk about leaving her when you have never done or experienced what she has done. You are condeming her and her habbits without reason.
     
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    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    Valium? Hardcore???? I use it for social anxiety disorder....
     
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    Those arent really hardcore drugs... high school girls use that shit... What the hell did she OD on? Coke?
     
  10. Ubisquo

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    If she still does them, and you don't want her to.. then you're fine to call it off as it's always going to be an issue. If you're uncomfortable with her past, that's your own battle.. but i wouldn't break up with someone because they'd done drugs before i'd come into their life. *shrug*
     
  11. timberwolf

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    What you're saying though can also be applied to someone with a heroine addiction too. So in this scenario you would suggest to try heroine first before making a condemnation?

    The fact that she has a history of sorts with drug use whether others consider it mild or not, is his call to make. Valium is obviously a prescription drug, but often easily abused.
     
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    Yes, you're being anal.
    You got into the relationship. Except her as she is. You can't just start changing shit.
     
  13. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    me 22, she is 20
     
  14. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    o wells... the balls in her court if she wants to go back to her old ways then she can do it alone or with someone else.

    dont got all the time in the world to waste.
     
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    EXCEPT her as she is? :rolleyes: Learn how to spell.

    No, you're not being too anal. The things she's doing to herself can be very harmful. You've no experience with them, but I would still respect your decision. You don't want to see someone you care for do things to hurt themself. Understandable.
     
  16. FairyTat

    FairyTat Anticipation, the taste of things to cum

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    "Accept" I think you meant. :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
     
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    Being the reason why I quoted the person above me and told them to learn how to spell. Nice try, though. :)
     
  18. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    damn human spell checkers!:rofl:
     
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    I, like you, never touched drugs. Tried a cigarette once. However, I have dated girls that have tried cocaine, heroine, X, etc. Keyed word being TRIED. What a girl does in the past, I dont care, as long as they are over it now. Even lots of sex. (as long as they are clean now).

    I actually respect their adventurous personality, and their brains/maturity to know when to quit doing drugs.

    If she is still doing drugs, thats another story.
     
  20. Lad

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    If they dont meet his standards, they dont need to be with him..... That is not anal. If he doesnt accept them the way they are, then that is his personal prefference. Would you want to end up in a relationship with an abusive spouse?.... It is not too much to ask someone to stop hurting themself, or others, and its not too anal if you ask her not to use drugs.
     
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    I think you are, only because YOU haven't tried any of that shit
     
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    idk,my girlfriend of 6 months found out i was doing pot, freaked, and asked me to stop.....but the fact of the matter is, theyre not gonna stop for you. theyll stop when theyre ready to, and only for themselves. i still smoke, i mean im in college having fun, and i never ditch her or see ehr high, so it doesnt affect us. idk, its a personal thing
     

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