I have led a pretty happy normal life. Can't complain too much, except for when it comes to relationships. I always seem to wind up with the cheaters, the psychos, and let's not forget the married men. I know what everyone is going to say "your not looking in the right places." Seriously, i'm never looking. Even with work, I have always had something lined up, just like guys. I always take things slow with them and try and build a friendship first. If they stick around and I see that they are cool to hang around then I date them. It's the psychos that always get you though, they don't show their true colors till way later is what I have noticed. I'm attractive, intelligent, have my shit together, and I know where i'm headed in life. This is what I need in a man. A. I have to be attracted to them. B. They have to have their own mode of transportation. C. They have to have their finances in order. (good job) D. If not, i'll take someone in school who is trying to get a good job. E. Mid 20s-Early 30s F. Has to like and want kids G. Not an ass-hole H. Takes me for what I am worth and treats me with respect. Guy that fits this criteria where are you???