Am I a Stalker?

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  1. GTFC115

    GTFC115 New Member

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    Does reading someone's facebook wall posts and finding out that she's been lying to me about not having a boyfriend make me a stalker?

    She's lived about 2 hours away from me for the summer and said before she left that they werent together. Well apparently they are.

    Do I confront her or act like nothing is wrong when she comes back to town for school?

    ...fucking women.
     
  2. GTFC115

    GTFC115 New Member

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    feels shitty to be lied too...
     
  3. MattThom01

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    doesn't really make you a stalker....but since you know that A) she has a bf, and B) she lied to you about it, I don't think she's worth talking to anymore.

    I'd just forget her, when school starts again, you'll be hanging out with other girls.
     
  4. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    no, doesn't make you a stalker

    you wanted answers and you found them.

    you're detective
     
  5. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    You should definately confront her.
     
  6. GTFC115

    GTFC115 New Member

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    the thing is, I guess I'd still like to be with her...but i want her to know that I know, but I dont want to ruin any future...
     
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    vodkacollins New Member

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    she lied to you, shes not single and free to be with you, but you dont want to ruin any chance of a future with her? :rofl:

    she has a bf, walk away.
     
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    Viper OT Supporter

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    Ok, why do you want to be with her?

    What is so great about her that you'd put up with lying and cheating to stay?
     
  9. GTFC115

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    I dont know. you're right. It just seemed different when she was here.
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Don't even waste your time confronting her. Just stop talking to her, stop checking her facebook (because we all know you are obsessed and going to continue to check it for further evidence). Move on.
     
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    thats what i needed :hs:
     
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    Yeah dude erase her from your friends list so you don't see her activities. Why stand for something like that when you deserve better.
     
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    huntz0r New Member

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    She's hot.

    Also, nothing wrong with a little police work. Now you must make the correct decision in light of this new information.

    Cut and run.
     
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    Listen to this man. Very, very, very good advice.
     
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    She wasn't with him when she was with you. Now that you're not around, she's with him. Welcome to girl logic
     
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    ww_Crimson New Member

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    Why does it seem like so many guys in the Vag lately have enormous confidence issues. It's like you're willing to settle for someone who doesn't give a shit about you as long as you can have them.
     
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    Typical answer: "But she's so hot...." or "But she is the best sex I've ever had...."
     
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    Sounds like he's had pretty little interaction with her especially since she's 2 hours away.


    I guess it's sort of like the pot calling the kettle black.. I used to hold onto a girl until I was pretty much pushed out of their life but that hasn't been the case for a couple of years.

    Live and learn -- no girl who doesn't appreciate you isn't worth holding onto.
     
  19. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    and they forget to wonder why she is so good in bed... ITS BECAUSE SHE'S A CHEATING WHORE AND IF FUCKING EVERYONE!!!
     
  20. uptown josh

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    vice cop!! :bigthumb:
     
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    fucking werd
     
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    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    not I....
     
  24. ASIANPRIDE

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    Move on...if it's meant to happen it will in another time and place...perhaps not now or ever...but if it does then this will be a lesson in patience...and that should be ur virtue.
     

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