Alright you hypocrites, which of the following is is alright to judge people on

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Falconer, Nov 24, 2009.

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Which is it OK to judge a SO/potential SO on (eg. disqualify them over)?

  1. Their past sex life (number of partners)

    51 vote(s)
    44.7%
  2. Their past relationships (eg. quality of parters, like if a person dated only losers or something)

    50 vote(s)
    43.9%
  3. Their personal past (drug use, crimes, jailtime, etc.)

    77 vote(s)
    67.5%
  4. Their family (maybe you like the person but their family is super low class or abrasive or grating)

    27 vote(s)
    23.7%
  5. Their friends (maybe you can't figure out why such a cool person has such ghetto friends)

    50 vote(s)
    43.9%
  6. Their level of education (geez, I could never marry someone with less than a double PhD )

    41 vote(s)
    36.0%
  7. Their speech (I <3 u but I can't listen to ur Boston/southern/martian accent 4 the rest of my life)

    39 vote(s)
    34.2%
  8. Their skills with money (sorry baby, down payment on a house > new shoes each week. NEXT)

    66 vote(s)
    57.9%
  9. THEIR LOOKS (otherwise perfect personality but u ain't mah type, NEXT)

    62 vote(s)
    54.4%
  10. *

    11 vote(s)
    9.6%
  11. *

    10 vote(s)
    8.8%
  12. *

    10 vote(s)
    8.8%
  13. A person's past is their past and you should not judge them on it (eg. I fail at judging risk)

    12 vote(s)
    10.5%
Multiple votes are allowed.
  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    I forgot to make the last poll "allow multiple choice" which basically ruined it. Sorry about that. Let's try again on this one.

    Since that last thread was basically "FUCK HIM, HE'S UGLY!!!!! (judge judge judge judge)" but then "oh dude you should NEVER ask someone about their past, that's being SOOOOOOOOO judgemental" , here's your chance to ANONYMOUSLY tell us how you really feel.

    Options 10 through 12 are asterisks (actually they were black spaces (alt+0160) but OT's forum software changed them into asterisks) because I wanted to separate the last option from the rest of them because it's different.

    Of course, I know some morans will choose all the options, or choose some combination or the first 9 and the last one (contradictory) or maybe just vote for the asterisks because they think we're in the main forum.
     
  2. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    then, Forgotten Spiral said:


    Then Falconer said:


    Then Forgotten Spiral said:

     
  3. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Just as a note. Saying something is "OK" to judge people on and saying "I would" judge people on are two different things.
     
  4. lauren

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    not their family.


    everything else is a choice.
     
  5. CorpseStreet

    CorpseStreet New Member

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    I think all of the areas are fair game because they can give you good insight into who a person is and why they do things. Level of education isn't that important as long as they have finished highschool. Of course their looks are important because you need to have some level of attraction.
     
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    It's ok to disqualify someone over anything you feel strongly about. (Even asterisks.)
     
  7. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Yeah, I can't believe i didn't make this an anonymous poll. Sure enough, two retards have already voted for the asterisk options.

    Can mods see it? I think they need a Vag ban. This is supposed to be a serious forum.
     
  8. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    It's a valid option on the poll. :hsugh:
     
  9. CorpseStreet

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    I thought the asterisks meant all of the above :dunno:
     
  10. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :werd: Everyone knows * = all. :wavey:
     
  11. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Think about it.

    1. There are THREE rows of asterisks which are identical. How could that mean "all of the above"? Why would there be three identical rows?

    2. It's a multiple choice poll. If you want all of the above, then click every option.

    3. I even explained why the asterisks were there in the first post.

    4. If I wanted a singular option to mean "all of the above" then I would've written out "all of the above" which fits well within the 100 character limit for each poll option
     
  12. blackbirdbeatle

    blackbirdbeatle New Member

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    Everything. Family too if they are really shitty people and the SO enables them or defends them. But I only start to judge if they repeat their past mistakes. I come into each relationship with a clean slate for them. Of course actions are a leaned behaviour so usually old habits creep up and annoy the shit out of me.

    I'm sure it's the same for them about me.
     
  13. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Yeah if we're in DOS or Windows Search :mamoru:
     
  14. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I feel like a nerd all of a sudden. :mamoru:
     
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  16. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    :werd: I don't judge people based on their family but everything else I do.
     
  17. CorpseStreet

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    1. I thought you fucked up
    2. Some people are lazy
    3. I honestly didn't read your entire first post.
    4. You might have run out of witty things to say in the parentheses

    Either way I wasn't one of the people who chose the asterisks
     
  18. Falconer

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    :mamoru: :rofl: fair enough
     
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    i wouldnt judge in the sense that i thought it was their choice or fault how crazy their family might be, but their family could very easily disqualify them for me
     
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    I think the only things above I judge people on that mean shit to me is their personal past (no ex-cons, please!) and level of education. And I guess looks.
     
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    only thing that would disqualify them for me as a SO is if i was extremely unattracted to them (and it's pretty hard for me to find somebody I'm not attracted to in a way) and if they had alot of sexual partners in the past, i wouldn't be able to date a girl that has slept with 10+ guys. Everything else on that list i can deal with.
     
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    I put:
    Their past sex life (I don't want to date a man-whore.)
    Their personal past
    Their speech (Accents kind of annoy me. I want someone with the same one as me.)
    Their skills with money (I hate dating spenders. I'm very good with managing money and I like to save it.)
    Their looks (Gotta look good)

    The rest I could let slide by.
     
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    voted Family/Money/*

    You didn't have a religion/politics/philosophy option so that's why I needed the asterisk though. If we can't agree on those, it's definitely not going to work out.

    Everyone says "you don't pick your spouse for their family" is full of shit, honestly I don't want to have to deal with someones awful fucked up family for the rest of my life so it's part of the package, and it hurts me in the same way because my immediate family is awesome but my extended family can be a bunch of selfish dickbags a lot of the time. :rofl:

    Also, someone who is financially irresponsible would drive me crazy. Don't get me wrong, spending money on fun stuff and outrageous vacations/projects is totally cool, but shit has to be prioritized.
     
  24. Falconer

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    Oh, I thought religion was an absolute dealbreaker with no exceptions, that's why I didn't include it.
     
  25. just_another_on

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    10? really?

    What if you were 29, single, met a 30 yr old lady, beautiful, successful, but shes been with 12 guys.

    Shes not 'worth' it to you cause shes been over the 10 mark?
     

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