Alright vag, the age old question

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  1. bjonesy77

    bjonesy77 New Member

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    So ive been having troubles with the ex girlfriend being around lately and me thinking I still had feelings for her. You can read about it in this thread http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?p=91224554#post91224554

    But Ive decided to keep my distance from her and save myself the trouble of trying to date an ex girlfriend that has a shit ton of problems.

    So after being in and out of a relationship with this girl and dating other girls that ive met through friends. How do I go about stepping outside of the box and finding a new genre of women?

    I want to broaden my horizon with women and date some different people. Where do you guys find is the best kind of place to strike up conversation with random girls where you cannot count on a friend knowing her and being able to introduce you. I want to date girls older, younger, black, asian, short, tall, you get the point. Ultimately I want to find a girlfriend that is 100% new, nobody knows her, and I havent heard some BS story about her.

    So Vag, help me out where should I start?
     
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    bjonesy77 New Member

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    also, have I been dating around my level, up? or down?

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    other girl i dated
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  3. MattThom01

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    pointless question. As long as you're happy, she's happy, and you're not doing anything illegal or crazy, who gives a fuck about "levels"?
     
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    well, usually I would say you are correct. But, Ive been pretty unhappy with alot of the girls I've dated lately. Maybe its me? I dont know? But I do know most of them turn out either crazy, boring, or just flat out not my type. So maybe I phrased it wrong by trying to give levels to it, but I am looking for a different kind of girl. You are correct, if both parties are happy who cares? But, in my regard, right now atleast, I feel like assigning a level go myself and past gf's will help identify the type of girls I need to date/not date.
     
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    I don't think any of the girls you posted pics of are really that attractive, but if what you want is a real relationship, what does appearance matter?
     
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    well obviously physical attraction is a key component in any lasting relationship. Honestly, I thought kari (first picture) was gorgeous when I dated her but now, i think shes a cute girl with good style but dont think she is gorgeous. The other 2 were average girls I'd say, but I was attracted to them physically partly because I was attracted to them emotionally, if that makes any sense to you? lol
     
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    those chicks are pretty ugly imo. def dating down
     
  8. MattThom01

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    ah. in that case, it's not a "level". To me, "level" is just like another word for rating of physical attractiveness.

    What I think you are looking to do is raise your standards for who you date/get into a relationship with.

    The great thing about "standards" as opposed to "levels" is that "standards" applies to more than just physical attractiveness. It can encompass looks, personality, income, lifestyle, you name it.

    Some standards can be viewed as requirements, some can be viewed as expectations.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Nah...they look about the right level to me...
     
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    I like the way you think.......

    I think that ive let my standards slip a little because these girls were all easy. Not to sound like a sleeze ball, but being 18-20, sex was/is a big deal. I never really saw any potential as a serious relationship in either of the girls about except kari (the first pic) whom I dated for a year or so.

    But still, my question has not been answered. What type of place should i frequent inorder to meet some new chicks?
     
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    fuck, kari (the ex of a year) just text me and wants me to meet her somewhere. Ive got to stay strong, I cant give in. I dont want to fuck with that, its bad for me. Pep talk anyone?
     
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    The girl in the first pic, the blonde, she looks kinda cute. Date her.
     
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    Jacy red lipstick brigade

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    I agree... he's neither dating up nor down..seems about the same level
     
  14. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    A: people who cant do any better.

    shes right about your level though TC.
     
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    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    and if you are not physically attracted to the woman the relationship can not possibly last.
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well you can meet women everywhere, but I always think the best way to meet new people is to find a place where you have common interests. In other words, my friends and I really love to hang out at small bars, drink, watch sports, etc.....So chances are I will meet a lot of men by going to these bars I enjoy and striking up a conversation with one of them. Same thing goes if you are active in anything. If you like soccer than join a soccer league for adults and you can usually meet them there. The list goes on and on, you just have to keep your eyes open.
     
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    blonde in the first pic is the same girl as brunette in 4th pic.....so, been there done that. shes nuts
     
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    dont listen to the haters, u are def dating DOWN
     
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    i don't usually agree with you, but here i do.
     
  20. Abomb

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    start agreeing with me then im always right
     
  21. yeah all those girls are busted
     
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    ya think? I mean, I figure if im going to get the honest brutal truth from somewhere it would be OT. I guess Ill have to set my sights a little higher from now on and see what happens. Thanks guys.
     
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    well not necessarily. some people get on here just to talk shit.

    you can do better than the fugly hos
     
  24. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    Lol, you could do so much better. Be more picky about their faces. Those girls are ugly.
     
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    teeth are all effed up. Just go to new places and be sociable. The worst that happens is you embarrass yourself at a place you never frequent.
     

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