Alright so heres the deal

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  1. 04JETTA

    04JETTA OT Supporter

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    for those of you who remember I posted a thread about my best friend and his gf not too long ago well he now he says he wants out hes gonna do it after the holidays but hes not sure exactly what to say anybody have any ideas?
     
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    i dont remember the thread, but best advice? be honest with her. why is he going to fake it through the holidays only to end it when they are over?
     
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    he feels bad and wants to do it in the least heart breaking way (his words not mine) so just be flat out then?
     
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    Fuck that. He's being selfish and just doesn't realize it. If he wants to end it, he should end it now. Let her grieve while she is surrounded by family and friends. She's not going to feel any better about it later. In fact, if I were her I'd be pissed that he dragged me along like that. Tell your friend to be a man. Coming from me, that's an insult. :rofl:
     
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    well, if he is ending it because she is fat and ugly, i wouldnt be brutally honest and tell her those exact words, but essentially yes, honestly is the best

    if she likes him, she is going to be hurt no matter what. its nice of him to want to hurt her the least, but its going to happen anyway. if he lies, she may find out the truth later and be even more hurt
     
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    and again, why is he waiting until after the holidays? if he is holding off cause he thinks it will be less painful, thats not the case. the sooner the better, especailly since you said he is already ovet it
     
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    sending him this thread will post responses later
     
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    btw I concur he should end it now
     

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