LGBT Ah, fuck. Some help please.

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  1. registeredPORK

    registeredPORK Happy Poo Poo

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    ... honestly, I haven't realized how hard it is to get a girlfriend ... How do you all do it? It is in their aura? How they act? I don't care if you're gay or a lesbian, any tips? xD

    This shit is frustrating as hell.
     
  2. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    stop trying so hard?

    i cant give much more advice than that

    I met my current bf after totally writing off dating

    I decided I was no longer going to try to date nor concern myself with trying to find a boyfriend

    Then he fell into my life and we've been together almost 2 years
     
  3. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    oh and to avoid being friendzoned

    I talked to him early on and told him my intention was to date him. Right away there was no wondering if i liked him or wanted to date him and the awkward moments of wondering if there was more to a hand touch than an accident etc etc

    wont always work, but if you are the outgoing type, I would let her know early on that you intend to get to know her to date her
     
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    registeredPORK Happy Poo Poo

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    The only thing is I don't want to go for someone who has no intentions of wanting to date a girl. I mean... god, maybe I don't have "the eye" of looking for a girl who wants to do well, a girl.

    Ugh, this is ridiculous. Well, I feel like it's ridiculous. I mean, I don't want to wait until some girl fall into my lap. I want to be a bit more pro-active then that but I'm not sure where to start :??
     
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    I dont care the sex or orientation of the person you are interested in. If you are trying too hard they will notice and most likely go away.

    The guy who I am talking to knows my intentions and he has the same. We are just giving him some time since his now ex was deported (again) last week.
     
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    Same happened to me, except the 2 years part. We'll see about that one.
     
  7. registeredPORK

    registeredPORK Happy Poo Poo

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    Egh. I guess I just need to stop trying hard then :o

    Thanks guys.
     
  8. ManyHamsters

    ManyHamsters There are necessary pursuits... but poetry, beauty

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    definitely agree with the meeting friends of friends thing... they usually have good taste ;)
     
  9. Friend of a friend...no matter to what power....is usually the best bet in my opinion. That's how I met my boyfriend. We both came out to one of our friends within like...4 months of each other?...same friend...and he knew both of us but we did not know each other. He introduced us and we clicked instantly. Went on a few "dates", had a ton of fun and it's been history since then. :wiggle: Basically he's awesome. :)
     
  10. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    good luck :)

    ill keep my fingers crossed for ya :x:
     
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    I would say. relax and stop looking. let it come. because you dont want to be in a relationship where you are only together because you want a relationship. i'm in one and i want out.
     

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