I don't think this is going to come out in and comprehendable way but I'm trying to rant and keep from yelling at my girlfriend. Ok first: Why is it ok for them to get upset but not for us?? If she gets angry I have to calm her down and be rational about it. If I get angry she freaks the fuck out and then I have to calm down and calm her back down. She doesn't try to think about what I feel or worry about what I feel she just gets pissed the fuck off. And this isn't just her it's every fucking woman I've ever been with or been friends with. Second: If they're supposed to be so much better at communicating than us then why can't they communicate emotions in any other way then freaking out and crying all the time??? Third: Who cares I'm fucking pissed.