Anybody here involved with anyone much older or younger than them? I've been looking, but I just can't seem to find any young guys in Phoenix who are actually masculine - no offense to you twinks out there, but I'm a bear man. However, through my searches I did come across one guy who really did seem like a good match for me, but he's 42. I'm 20. Considering the "cougar principle," that any 20 year old guy would jump at the change to hook up with a hot 42 year old woman, I can't find anything actually wrong with getting involved with someone so much older than me, but I'm still feeling wierd about it. I guess more than anything else, I'm looking for some justification to just bite the bullet and go for it with this guy.