So, I have a friend who I like... a ton. Everything about him is perfect for me. I can barely think of things we don't have in common. We even complain about the same things. Publicly, he's straight, but a lot of people doubt it.. just the way he acts sometimes screams "faaaaag." Anyway, one night we fooled around a bit, and he was enjoying everything, and I sure as hell was, but afterward, he said something to the effect of "that was pretty cool, and I had soem doubts about my sexuality, but now I'm pretty sure that I'm straight." I was pretty much crushed... a little bit depressed, and I was definitely not happy. He constantly flirted with me, and then him saying that nothing was there was incredibly depressing. Anyway, a few days ago, I was at his house with some people, and I was teasing him... After a while, once everyone else had fallen into a slumber, we eventually fooled around again, and he returned the favor this time. After we were finished, we cleaned up, and sat on his porch so he could smoke a ciggarette. He weas talking about how he really enjoys doing things, but after he's done he feels really terrible. "While we do things, I really enjoy it, but when I come, I'm thinking about women, and after we're done, I feel like I've done something so incredibly wrong. I feel terrible.. I mean. I don't know if I'm straight or bi, but I enjoy everything until it's finished." Has anyone else ever had an experience like this, or can anyone provide any advice? Idunno what to do. I really like him, and I really want to do more with him, but I don't want to make him feel bad or regret anything.