After cumming I go immidietly soft....

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  1. bobbarker70

    bobbarker70 New Member

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    I used to have sex with my gf for up to 2 hours....i'd cum several times and everytime just keep going. Now, i'll finish super quick and go limp within 5 minutes. It makes sex very unenthusing for both of us. She's even asked me if i'm just less attracted to her as before. It sucks. Even when I cum it really isn't all that great.

    What could be why this is happening? This sucks. I'm still super attracted to her but somethings missing. ugh.
     
  2. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    welcome to a sex life...its not always consistent.

    And if she feels that way, then something else is wrong or you 2 lack communication. Reasssure her its not her, then tell her to read up on some sex ed.
     
  3. BedBunny

    BedBunny Guest

    try some viagra?
     
  4. Guardfather

    Guardfather The Paradox

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    Are you sticking to the most highly stimulating position/technique you've found over the two years? The only reason I can think of for a man cumming more quickly after time is "perfection of stimulation". Maybe you should try some other positions for a while and then go for the climax when you're both feeling ready?

    BTW, is this your first sexual partner? As far as not being able to go multiple times... That sounds pretty normal for any guy who's got plenty of orgasms under his belt.
     
  5. chlywly

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    It could be a number of things

    a) your diet has changed and its not suiting you, or you are not getting enough nutrients

    b) you aren't excercising enough and keeping your mind/body fit/free ie) you are stressed

    c) you have been having too much sex or watching too much porno and have desentisized your mind into receiving less pleasure from sex, built up notions and concepts about how sex should be and lost interest in the finer smaller details of being "sexual" or connecting with yourself...
     
  6. tqpolo

    tqpolo ***** Platinum Member OT Supporter

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    Now you're normal and you think it's something wrong? Weird.
     

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