Hello vag, I'm here asking for your opinion and advice. I broke up with my girlfriend of a year a couple weeks ago. I've had a strong policy of not talking to any of my girlfriends after breaking up. She initiated that we take a break and I said no were going to have to breakup or solve the problem. She choose breakup. I've been trying to occupy myself with other things like gym and school since I'm 21 in college. I went back to her apt one last time to get my suitcase from her which went well because it was minimal contact/talking. She obviously dressed up and made herself look pretty for the occasion, which is immature but works. I just saw her this morning on my way to the library at eight and chose to ignore her and look straight ahead. Am I doing the right thing? Do I need to just keep powering foreward even though I feel as if I should be talking to her? Ask me for more information if you'd like because I'm sure Im leaving something out. Confused Soul edit; I feel at this point I just need positive reinforcement because at this point in my life my self-esteem and ego is pretty torn, but at the same thing maybe I should listen and do as my emotions tell me to do?