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  1. Pringles

    Pringles New Member

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    Hello vag, I'm here asking for your opinion and advice. I broke up with my girlfriend of a year a couple weeks ago. I've had a strong policy of not talking to any of my girlfriends after breaking up. She initiated that we take a break and I said no were going to have to breakup or solve the problem. She choose breakup.

    I've been trying to occupy myself with other things like gym and school since I'm 21 in college. I went back to her apt one last time to get my suitcase from her which went well because it was minimal contact/talking. She obviously dressed up and made herself look pretty for the occasion, which is immature but works. I just saw her this morning on my way to the library at eight and chose to ignore her and look straight ahead.

    Am I doing the right thing? Do I need to just keep powering foreward even though I feel as if I should be talking to her?

    Ask me for more information if you'd like because I'm sure Im leaving something out.

    Confused Soul :sadwavey:

    edit; I feel at this point I just need positive reinforcement because at this point in my life my self-esteem and ego is pretty torn, but at the same thing maybe I should listen and do as my emotions tell me to do?
     
  2. XaPU!M

    XaPU!M Active Member

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    You've got bigger balls then most of the guys who make threads like this. You are doing exactly what you need too, keep it up.
     
  3. nish81

    nish81 OT Supporter

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    i agree with this post
     
  4. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    You're doing fine. Just keep your head straight and look forward.
     
  5. _A_

    _A_ New Member

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    Keep ignoring her, easiest way to move on even though it sucks :(
     
  6. D7

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    imo keeping in contact fosters a sense of false hope for one of the two people, or sometimes both
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You are doing EVERYTHING right. Keep it up.
     
  8. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Stay strong, brother. I know it's not easy, but you're doing what's best.
     
  9. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    :werd:
     
  10. Hahawhat?

    Hahawhat? New Member

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    I would like to say you deserve a trophy for being one of the few guys who makes stupid women see their actoins, don't fall for any tricks and have fun being single. If she really makes you made or tries really hard just start hanging out with females all the time and it will drive her nuts. Women hate it when they break up with a guy and he starts having a good time with other women,
     
  11. ChaCha

    ChaCha Active Member

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    keep it together
     
  12. Pringles

    Pringles New Member

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    You guys fucking rock and are giving me exactly what I needed to hear!

    Thanks for the input.
     
  13. giz

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    You're doing everything I'm not :rofl::(
     

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