Discussion in 'On Topic' started by Ryan2261, Nov 15, 2007.
Dont ever go into ANY relationship based of superficial surface things. Never EVER say "this is the kind of girl I could marry." Date who you genuinely are most attracted to, but not just in a physical sense.
perhaps just try to get laid by the hot girl, then pursue something more long term with the other.
Key question: how old are you?
This informs the answer but basically you should date both.
There's nothing remotely wrong or sleazy about that.
The whole point of dating is to get to know someone, find out what they're really like, BEFORE entering a long-term relationship with them
What USED to be called "going steady"
This two phased thing seems to have been forgotten.
Either you head straight into dating, or else you sorta slut around and nail both (which isn't necessarily a bad idea).
So anyways, you should date/befriend both.
If your conscience bothers you, just don't sleep with either one yet.
You'll pretty quickly figure out which one you'd rather spend more time with.
you should grow up before you even think about entering a real relationship. This should not even be a question if you have any common sense
I chose option 2 for a while and it's not half as fulfilling as option 1. It gives you stories and things to tell the guys but thats about it.
Fling with hot girl... end it. Then go for other girl.
Choosing option 2 (hotness) first, is what allows you to feel comfortable and CONTENT with option 1 later.
This is assuming you're young, and option 2 is new to you.
option 2 sounds like the most fun but if you have half a brain you'd either wait or pic option 1
Depends on where you want to take it. Are you looking for a wife, or a good time?
By the way I'm only 19 so that was a big factor in knowing that I am not looking for a marriage type girl yet.. I just happened to find her early in my life so that kind of sucks.. just hope I can hold on to her until im done having my fun.
id go for the hot one, you dont really know her yet so her personality with you might be different.
and you prolly dont know the other one very well either, maybe just in group situations and think shes cool. date them both, see which one you like more after a couple weeks, then cut one loose.
When I was your age, I went for the hot ones and yeah, they were fun and I've got some great memories. However as I've aged, I kinda wish I had chosen a little differently. Personality can make up for a multitude of things.
Life's about choices and not matter which one we pick, we'll probably have thoughts about the one we didn't pick. I'm not saying we'll regret our choices...just wonder "what if". I think this is normal.