LGBT Advice plz

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  1. Fate13

    Fate13 New Member

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    I have a friend I met on the web coming to visit this December. :noes: This friend of mine is also a love interest, which they know and seem to reciprocate. So this is where the problem comes in, I need a little help in coming up with some ground rules to put in place. I have never had a b/f nor a potential b/f, so a little advice would be appreciated. Assume this person isn't an Internet stalker btw. :o



    P.S. I understand using common sense is a good starting point, but I am looking for a something a bit more specific. :hs:


    P.S.S. I know in a previous topic I said I don't trust the Internet to meet ppl, but I figure I should try it at least once before I completely discount it. :rolleyes:
     
  2. suckmyexhaust

    suckmyexhaust New Member

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    first off, what has been expressed between the two of you?

    Secondly, how long is the visit. I hug is fine, holding hands is great and little kisses on the cheek isnt bad.

    If things feel right and he is who says he is, then proceed with caution. At most, cuddle. If he is cool with that, then move forward from there at a later time.

    my .02
     
  3. Navvik

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    yes it has been expressed betwixt us, and i am who i say i am :mamoru: we're just curious in general as to how to proceed. and the visit is.... 8 days. also, kisses on the cheek and holding hands ftmfw. :bigthumb:
     
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  4. Diesel Freak

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    Oooh, sounds exciting! :naughty:

    I"m all for going with what feels right. Don't rush things and don't get pushy. I'm not one for sex on the first date (except for that one time :noes:), but I feel that kissing is fine if that's what you both are comfortable with.

    Enjoy!!

    PS: Internet hookups are sketchy... especially with that Navvik character. ;)
     
  5. Navvik

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    who me? omg wait that one time was a total misunderstanding! they were dead when i got there...:noes:
     
  6. Fate13

    Fate13 New Member

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    Any other addvice from the closet??? :x:
     
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    dont be a silly and wrap your willie:cool:
     
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    :rofl: Priceless.
     
  9. Navvik

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    aside from sexual advice... pervert:p
     

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