Hello Vaginarium been awhile since I've asked for advice but I think I could really use a good talkin to right now, I have been single for about 6 months and in that time I've been on a few dates. Recently I went on one and I feel like I am losing total control. so I was working at a restaurant a week ago and I really felt like there was something between myself and this girl that I was serving. As she walked out the door I decided fuck it and wrote my number down on one of our business cards and chased after her. It was well received and she texted me that night and we went out a few days later. We went for a walk around noon and then ended up talking for a few hours near the ocean. I kissed her and it was well received. We talked a bit more then we ate at a casual restaurant. We got along really well and the whole time she was saying how she couldn't wait to tell her friends about me and stuff like that. We even finished each others sentences a bit and talked about some really deep things. She shared with me some really personal things about her family and I did the same. Basically by the time I dropped her off I already felt crazy about this girl even though we only spent about 6 hours together. We had a really good kiss and we agreed we would see eachother again for sure. I called her the next day and told her what an awesome time I had and she agreed. I asked to see her again and she said she'd call me when she figured out her schedule for the week. *mid post update* she got back to me a day and a half later okay so she texted me while I was writing this post, I was basically worried about coming on too strong and scaring her away but it looks like I didn't phewf. I think i'm gonna post this shit anyways since I wouldn't mind sharing lols.... I guess I wanna ask if other OTers operate like me? I find that when I like someone I can go overboard. I feel like my emotions are way too strong from the get go and that has worked against me once or twice. Maybe it is because I rarely feel a real connection with people so that when I find one I grapple on really strong...the last girl said I freaked her out even though I said lets take it slow because she said I am the kind of person who is sort of go big or go home...I coudn't really disagree. she's also the hottest girl i've ever kissed lols, that probably has to do with it too cliffs: I was worried I scared a girl away by coming on too strong (even though I don't think I said anything crazy) but she got back to me while I was writing this post. I am emotionally weak.