Advice for a Foursome? MMFF...

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  1. theaznfunk

    theaznfunk B-boy fanatic

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    My gf and I have been talking about having a foursome... anyone have any experience with that sort of thing (or even threesomes)? I need advice as to how to go about it... how to make sure she does not get upset or make myself get overly jealous. Normally I'm not the jealous type but I'm not sure how it would be if the other dude was doing my girl. I'm thinking if we actually do go through with this, then the two of us would set down some limits as to what we're comfortable with the other doing and getting done to them (eg. I'm fine with her doing whatever with the girl, but I'm not sure if I'm comfortable with any vaginal or oral with the guy just yet).

    Any advice as to how to make things run as smoothly as possible, picking the right people, keeping jealousy to a minimum, etc etc? Can anybody relate their experiences with such matters? Thanks...
     
  2. demosnat

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    Maybe the girls can play together and then have sex with your so, and the other girl w/ the other guy, so you get the kink of group sex with out having to watch your girl sucking face with another guy
     
  3. theaznfunk

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    Yeah I was thinking that might be a possibility. I think the girl is bi, a party-type, and is attracted to my gf, so that will lure her in for the foursome, and the guy is a party type too, so he'd probably be up for it. On the otherhand, the guy and girl we have in mind don't know each other and may not be up for doing each other...
     
  4. demosnat

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    hm. maybe find another couple? you should read my post (thinking of experimenting....) im going through similar dillemas
     
  5. PocoDiablo

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    I actually just posted in that other thread, but here is some other advice for you:

    Everyone fucks everyone. Deal with it. If you can't deal with the thought of watching some other guy fucking your woman, don't do it. Personally, I think it's like watching porn. Just up close and in person. And remember, we've likely all had other sex partners, so what's the deal with one more person? If you have a problem with it, the real issue is your insecurity which will blow your whole relationship apart irregardless of some other guy fucking her with your permission. (Read into that, it's deep.)

    Picking the couple is hard as shit. Personally, I have never planned any foursome. It's usually come from a night of partying with some people who we thought were attractive. I'd check in the with SO first and ask her what she thought of them, and if she was down then I'd take it from there. Typically, I would talk to the guy and let him know my SO thought he was attractive, and did he think his woman was down for some fun? Then I'll let my woman flirt with the other woman, and it all goes downhill from there.

    If you don't have lots of friends/parties around, join www.adultfriendfinder.com. Put up your profile, post some pictures, take it from there. I usually recommend meeting for drinks, like a date, and see if you like the folks.

    Personally, I prefer friends of friends. But then again, we have lots of people over at our house all the time so that makes it much easier.

    Anyway, go for it, and keep your insecurity in check. Don't lose your cool over anything.

    And remember, some women like double penetration, especially if they like anal. This is a perfect opportunity to let her try something that will never happen otherwise. :naughty:
     
  6. RougeOgre

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    PocoDiablo is right. Talk it all out first so there are no mis-understandings. Then have fun!!!!!
     
  7. GSRwBOOST

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    Your relationship is at it's end....

    IBbreakupthread
     
  8. PocoDiablo

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    As I mentioned in the other thread:

    Every woman with whom I have had a threesome (or moresome) I have broken up with.
    Every woman with whom I have NOT had a threesome (or moresome) I have broken up with.

    So, my experience is that it doesn't matter one bit.

    Nowadays I regret the experiences I did NOT do more than the ones I did. The ones I did, I wished I had videotaped!!! :mamoru:
     
  9. RedVsBlue

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    Why is it at its end? :dunno:

    As for the actualy 4sum, thngs like that are crazy. Sex with multiple people at once, especially when you really love one can be tons and tons of fun as long as you handle it right. Just remember its thin ice when you are out there, and it is better to be cautious and miss out on the backflip than to do it and fall through the ice.

    Set your ground rules, cover your angles, makes sure everyone involves knows the rules and follows them and you are golden.
     

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