ok i'm asking this cause i have no idea what to think about him in these situations... i love him in every way possible but when he starts getting on the subject of sex, he only thinks its about himself. he says he wont suck and he is always top. this always causes stupid little arguments and i'm tired of it.. so i asked on here to get some outside input on who is right or wrong. i think sex is between TWO people and that he is just too uncomfortable with the idea of letting me top. who's right?