MIL active duty suicide

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  1. dubrocker

    dubrocker sho nuff

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    my girlfriend shot herself on the 13th. we lived together for about 2 years. life has not been easy since then.

    for the record- i'm not going to hurt myself.
     
  2. Ranger-AO

    Ranger-AO I'm here for the Taliban party. Moderator

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    Damn, man. Fuck. :wtc:

    :hugot:

    btw - base chaplain is a good place to go for counseling/therapy if you want it. off the record uniless you say you are considering something illegal.
     
  3. SeaMack99

    SeaMack99 OT Supporter

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    :eek3::hugot:
     
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    Damn dude i'll pray for you and her family man. :wtc:
     
  5. scottiemac

    scottiemac It's time to shoot some hot dogs!

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    sorry to hear man!
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    wow im sorry to hear this! im sorry to hear for your losses.. any clue why she did it?
     
  7. dubrocker

    dubrocker sho nuff

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    she was a chaplain's assistant. i am friends with all of the chaplains here except for a couple new ones. it's been really hard to deal with for sure.
     
  8. dubrocker

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    i know why, but i honestly dont want to talk about it here. the few friends i have are all far away from where i am, and i don't think i can bring myself to keep typing the same story again and again. it certainly sucks not having local friends and having to deal with this.
     
  9. ManinCamo

    ManinCamo I wear big boy pants.

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  10. TRN

    TRN Well-Known Member

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    Well we may be strangers, but the majority of us are still here for you man.

    Sorry for your loss.
     
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    greenpillow New Member

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    i understand.. we are here if you need us..
     
  12. Jyokker

    Jyokker The trouser snake is very aggressive. It will corn

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    You should still seek counseling. Sorry for your loss.
     
  13. dubrocker

    dubrocker sho nuff

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    before killing herself, she took everything out of the house and put it in storage. EVERYTHING. all the dishes, the bed, everything. now today i find out that i will probably never get any of it back. what a shitty day.
     
  14. Ranger-AO

    Ranger-AO I'm here for the Taliban party. Moderator

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    oh fuck. it just gets worse. :eek4:
     
  15. dubrocker

    dubrocker sho nuff

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    worse is nowhere near an accurate description.

    my gf died wednesday. friday my ex-wife (lives nearby) filed for emergency temporary custody and put a restraining order on me. i can't go within 500 feet of my son; before this i had full custody of him. she thinks i killed her and is not being cooperative what so ever.
     
  16. Sharkticon

    Sharkticon The safest place in combat is on an AEGIS Class Gu

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    Wow. My condolences. I work for Navy Chaplains and when something like this happens to one of their own, the chaplains suffer the loss as well.
     
  17. someonenew

    someonenew He's Dangerous

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    go see Base Legal. You need help.
     
  18. ElCidKid

    ElCidKid New Member

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    Dubrocker, I'm sorry for your loss. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
     
  19. dubrocker

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    i retained a lawyer yesterday. custody is such a horrible thing to fight over; it's all emotionally driven.

    yesterday i wrote some emo stuff about my gf, i'll post it here as part of my e-grieving i guess. telling people how i feel makes me feel like i'm doing something to get over this, so bear with me folks.

     
  20. dubrocker

    dubrocker sho nuff

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    i've found myself listening to music from before i met her and every now and then a song or two that reminds me of good times together. if i'm driving i usually have the windows down and no music. the wind does something for me... though i'm not sure what.

    i guess i could have posted this thread elsewhere, but i really only post here in teh barracks. most everyone here can relate to the foundation of my usual day and my general state of mind.
     
  21. dubrocker

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    i knw it's been a while, but i wanted to thank all of you for your kind words and let you know i'm doing ok.
     
  22. Ranger-AO

    Ranger-AO I'm here for the Taliban party. Moderator

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    I was thinking about you today. Hoped you were hanging in there. :wavey:
     

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