A week ago I thought I had a gf, now I think I'm getting played.

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  1. TXLBS

    TXLBS New Member

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    A week ago I thought I had a gf, now I think I got dropped.
    And I have yet to speak to the girl in the same span.

    What the fuck.

    anyways, what the hell. a thursday-->monday of taking this girl out every day, us having a great time, her telling me how she thinks we have a connection...

    then i leave town for business, i get back the day after she leaves for cali for spring break... she gets back monday, i call to ask how her vacation went and no answer, give her 2 days to call back... she doesnt.. call her tonight, no answer, hop on the book and we aren't even friends anymore

    i called her best friend (a really good friend of mine, how we met actually) to ask what was up... turns out shes not mad, and her phones fucked up, and shes with a friend and thats why she didnt pick up.

    dude, i'm not some 20 year old chump. i know exactly what that means. shes with her exboyfriend, and shes been with him enough that she didnt call me back.

    and wow, after re-reading all what i just wrote, i can't believe my shit sounds so high school... im fucking 23, graduated and have a good job. this shits not cool.


    whats my play? shrug it off because nobody said anything about bf/gf... i do want to date this girl, but knowing shes with another guy right now is definately putting a kink in that.
     
  2. bmorrell

    bmorrell SoCal > *

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    She doesn't want to see/talk/be with you as much as you want to see/talk/be with her.

    Drop her, move on.
     
  3. TXLBS

    TXLBS New Member

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    sometimes you just gotta bark up the tree more than she does... its part of being a man.

    if dropping her and moving on is what its gonna take, that may just end up being my play.... but i dont want to be so quick about it. we had a really good time and she was down as fuck before i left for my business trip
     
  4. Abomb

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    well i was going to help till you tried to troll me in the other thread


    edit: and it seems you trolled me because you are bitter about this bitch?

    awkward.
     
  5. TXLBS

    TXLBS New Member

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    trolled you?

    you arent single... havent been in forever... non single peoples rules on the practice of first dates mean nothing.

    i thought it was fairly intuitive.
     
  6. TXLBS

    TXLBS New Member

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    no relationship talk... under a week of hanging out....

    yah it felt like i was moving fast, but i still dont get having to wait 72 hours for a damned returned phone call. work,traffic,getting dressed for work takes up 12 hours of my day and i manage to return every single one of my missed phone calls daily.
     
  7. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    you're expecting way too much after less than a week and she may not be too interested. keep your options open.
     
  8. AutoEuphoria

    AutoEuphoria New Member

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    Same kind of thing happened to me once. Got to know this girl, went out on a few dates...hung out basically every day. This went on for 2 weeks, then all of a sudden she just MOVED without telling me about it. No big deal, really, because it was only 2 weeks or so, but still. Thought things were going well, and then she just moved, never called, never emailed...nothing. To this day I still have no idea where she went, why she didn't tell me, etc.
     
  9. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    Whats your play? well if you're a 23 year old and you have the level of intelligence and maturity you are claiming, there is only one play. MOVE ON
     
  10. Exiled

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    Ignore it, move on type of mentality you should play dude. I mean, you like her and... you can't be "that guy" who sits and leaves messages and texts and myspace messages or whatever.

    Just be the guy you should and say whatever and move on and tack it up with the other ladies gone (so to speak). If she comes back, then that's a whole other thread!
     
  11. kiri

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    if you're 23 you should know that hanging out with a girl for a few days doesn't make her your gf
     
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    vipergts24 New Member

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    Try not to act so desperate when a girl shows you 5 min of attention maybe?
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    How is this a question?

    You dated her for 4 days, it's not high school where that makes her your bf :ugh: Leave her alone-stop calling, texting. You're lucky her phone is supposedly messed up so she cant laugh at you trying to contact her so much. She's not over her ex boyfriend.
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yeah...it's called she's not interested in you as much as you want her to be.

    Get over it. You said yourself, you're a 23 year old guy with a job-there are other women who won't choose their ex boyfriend's over you.
     
  15. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    just say NEXT
     
  16. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    ITs not worth the time and energy if she calls you in a week or whatever... i have gone through this shit b4 best to move on... her loss right?
     
  17. Pringles

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    Dude I can tell by your post that your acting weak over her. Man up and move on. Shes not for you and you can get better. The worst part is you know you can get better, but wont accept it.
     
  18. armywrx

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    Flush the relationship and move on, it has been a week big deal.
     
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    she's not that into you. move the fuck on
     
  20. TXLBS

    TXLBS New Member

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    lol, i made this thread when i was still pissed off about it.

    less than 24 hours later, im gonna back burner this broad. if she comes back and wants to make things right, meh, i'll cross that bridge.. but for now im just gonna go back to working on myself (working out, saving for my new sports car, getting moved into my new townhouse, etc)
     
  21. Abomb

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    thats not true, you might not know that if you dont have alot of experience with females
     
  22. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    You threw the ball in her court... I would just wait for her to call you back but don't get your hopes up on it. If she calls, go from there, if not, you probably already found another girl to chase.
     
  23. cd7

    cd7 how troublesome

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    damn bitch milked you and got free dinners
     
  24. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Why would you take a girl you just met out everyday for 5 days straight? She probably stopped talking to you because she wants a guy who has a life of his own and won't drop everything for a girl he just met...
     
  25. Abomb

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    true.
     

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