SRS A simple how-to question...

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  1. Boudreaux

    Boudreaux Active Member

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    how do you get over a girl who was everything you ever wanted, and more...you just weren't what she was looking for??

    Friends for 2 years, best buddies at that....failed relationship after 10 months....

    how do you get over her?
     
  2. johan

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    Discontinue all contact.

    Start calling up your buddies. The same ones you neglected during the time with "her".

    Occupy yourself with pleasant distractions. Go out with your buddies.

    Do it even if you don't feel like it. Force yourself. Regardless of how crappy you feel.

    If you let your feelings dictate your actions, at this point, you'd spend most of your time flicking that tennis ball against the back wall of your bedroom.
     
  3. deviant

    deviant rest your trigger on my finger

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    this is key.
     
  4. redna

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    You put your left leg in...

    you put your left leg out...

    You put your left leg in... and you shake it all about.

    You do the hokey pokey and you turn yourself around.

    That's what it's all about! YEE HA!
     
  5. dave steel

    dave steel My Kung Fu is the best.

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    Boudreaux, everything you want in a girl now and what you want 5 years from now might be at polar opposites. I had a relationship like yours and felt similar towards this girl. Still, thinking back, I'm so glad things didn't work out.
     
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    God I hope your right. Your last comment (sentence) reminds me of that song, Unanswered Prayers.
     
  7. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Like they always say, hindsight is 20/20. :bigthumb:
     
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    end thread here :big grin:
     
  9. Boudreaux

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    bumpers
     
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  11. Falconer

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    If she's perfect for you but you're not perfect for her, then it's not a perfect match.

    Logically, that is correct.

    However, oftentimes even when you know something is logically correct, it still kicks your ass emotionally. :(
     

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