Basically my question is how can one last longer? There's always the beat off before you have sex line yadda yadda yadda, which would work if I knew when I was having sex. Or the have more sex, which could work. However, I've been dating the same chick for over a year now, and my endurance and still super low, probably only have sex 3-4 times a week which usually starts out with a good 15-20 minutes or more of foreplay. When the actual sex commences, I'm lucky if I last 5-10 minutes. After drinking I can last a long time, or if we have sex multiple times in the span of a day or so my endurance goes up a bit as well. I'm half thinking it's mental, because the other day her bed was squeeky like hell, and I lasted a lot longer just because I think my mind kept hearing the squeek and kept it off other things? So basically what are my options besides what I've listed? Maybe cut back on the foreplay atleast on my end, ie. alot of that foreplay time involves a handjob which takes years to get me off. ideas? comments?