i'd like to get a pair of kaos silicone eyelets, but i'm not sure how to decide what 'wear surface' i need. they come in 1/4" and 5/16" for my size (2g- skin eyelets). one of the reasons i want them is so that when necessary (i.e. family occasions, work) i can wear normal-sized earrings through them, but i don't know how to tell if they might be too short and possibly fall out or sit strangely. can anyone with experience with these please help me out? thanks!