I bring this to FS cause I beleive you can keep your mouths shut about it just in case someone stumbles on things that shouldn't.... In college there was this beautiful girl I always had my eye on but never had the balls ot approach. She comes to the club I work at to watch her friends band and I see her outside and call her over. (At the time I was dating someone, so I didn't care). Now I am out of the relationship and she seems interested. We hung out the other day and we spoke a good bit..Somehow it turns out she is a virgin, thats fine to each their own. It seems she is this way becuase she was accosted by 3 football players when she was 12 (we didn;t get into any detail of what happened) Needless to say she is scared shitless of sex and intimacy on any lvl. I think she has only gone as far as making out never even sleep sleeping in a bed with someone else. What does one do in this situation?