I've been seeing this girl for a little while now. We're very open sexually and don't have a problem trying new things. She has mentioned before she has been in a threesome and we've discussed it a few times but nothing ever really came of it. I've never been in one and don't have much interest in it either to be honest (I know, how unmanly) Anyhow, even during the talks about the threesome she's told me she wouldn't mind light touching from the other girl to me but doesn't want it to go much beyond that. So that's the background story...today she tells me she put up an add somewhere saying she was looking for a girl to "hook up with" and posted a few of her pictures on there along with it. I don't really like the idea. For one I see too many possibilities with it being on the internet, and two I look at sexual stuff as something that a couple should share on an intimate level. I'm not saying people can't screw around and have fun if they aren't dating or anything...I'm all for it. But when you're in a relationship of some sort, I think you should stick with it...espicially if both parties aren't cool with it. Anyhow, I told her I didn't like the idea. She said that was fine and she probably would have chickened out before anything happened. She seemed totally fine with it and all but it was something I really wasn't expecting I guess. That and I'm shocked she threw her picture up on the internet.