A bittersweet end

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  1. crashspeeder

    crashspeeder Interesting Title

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    I dated my now ex-gf for a year and a half, sure it's not that long but it felt like it. For the past few months i've felt more distant from her than ever. I've been working a lot and usually i'd just find something else to do than to see her. Things had changed between us, I didn't feel the same about her but I still cared for her. We'd still have sex and soon enough we'd be going our separate ways for the next few weeks til we saw eachother again.

    Today she called me up and asked if I had time to talk. She was crying, she told me she thought it'd be best if we broke up since she felt she was holding me down. I was releived to hear this, though I didnt say that, but that's when it hit me; the "I wish I had done things differently". It's only been 2 hours and I actually miss her, however I probably wouldn't be able to carry on a relationship with her anymore. We decided to remain friends (heh, as if u don't hear that one often).

    This isn't really a search for advice but a need for somebody to talk to. Feel free to comment, let me know what u think of this.
     
  2. RockChick

    RockChick New Member

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    well, i think you guys made the right decision.

    sometimes people just fall out of love, not much you can do about it.
    good thing is you decided to remain friends :), so its not a "i'll never see you again" thing.
     
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    Admirable and honorable. Kudos to you and your new xg/f.
     
  4. NJGuy

    NJGuy "Fuckmefuckmefuckmefuckmef uckmefuckmefuckmefuckm OT Supporter

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    You did the right thing.
    Let her go and find someone who wants to be with her.
    Im sure she deserves that at least right?
     
  5. crashspeeder

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    it's just scary that now i'm alone again. You never know what you have until it's gone, right? But at least I'm not depressed or anything, I had more or less prepared myself for breaking up with her and she ended up breaking up with me.
     

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