So I have been single for 6 months almost and am working and getting better at getting over the ex. Thanks to the help of the Vag, I have made great progress forward. Here is an example, last night my buddy and I go out for a drink at his friend's bar. We get there, say hello and are greated with a vodka shot. I then have my Guinness and we sit down on the patio area. Since my friend knows some of the bar tenders we are getting taken care of. Fast forward a little, cute waitress comes up and wants to sell us more drinks. We tell her that Joe is taking care of us, she then tells us she can bring us new drinks and have Joe ring it up. She is cute, we agree. Fast forward again, next thing I know, she and I are doing a shot of Jager. She is really flirty at this point and touching me, I am touching her, the flirty things. She comes back and is now talking to us and not asking us for an order. The bar manager comes up and whisper something into her ear, she smiles and walks away...comes back with two shots of patron. My friend has to drive us (me) home because at this point I am 2 Guinness, 1 shot of jager, 1 shot of vodka deep. So he says he can't shoot it but she can. So then then pours half of her shoot into mine and says tequilla is bad. I ask why, she whispers to me, it makes me strip. I say not a bad thing. So we shoot that, and then she comes back stares into my eyes and says we are doing another shot of jager. Fast forward some more, the night ends with her putting her phone number in my phone. I know it was her job to be flirty, but chances that if I call her I might get to take her out. Cause when I asked for her phone number, I asked if I could take her out. Well I think, my memory is a little foggy. Cliffs: Went to bar. Got drunk with waitress, got waitress's number. Funny side not, she thought we probably racked up a $150 worth of drinks, but my buddy knowing the bar manager, he payed $35. So I got my first phone number, even though it was with liquid courage in person. For me that is a big step foward. I feel shit is starting to go my way now. So thank OT(Vag crew), I heart you.