3 years

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  1. antihero

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    well here it is. my breakup thread. its for the best. I just can't believe all the things that are never going to happen again.

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    yup.. its been terminal for a while. plug got pulled tonight.
     
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    How did it happen? Give some details on the situation!

    What do you think was the main thing that killed your relationship? What would you have done differently?
     
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    time and distance. I'm a slacker, shes ambitious.

    Between her school/work/friends/family/other I spent a lot more time feeling alone then i spent feeling like i was with someone.

    Shes ready for the kind of commitment she deserves after three years, and the kind of enthusiasm for the relationship she deserves because she is absolutely great.

    I can't help but think it will be another disappointment when she moves from halfway across the country to 80 miles away. She couldn't deal with that, and I don't blame her.
     
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    if i could have done anything different? Would have spent a lot less time trying to get her to slow down, and just let both of us enjoy the ride. :hs:
     
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    These things might not happen again with her, but I'm sure you will find another relationship with similar things to enjoy and new things to discover....

    Sorry to hear about it, but it sounds like it's a choice you made with a lot of thought and was the right decision for you.
     

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