3 vs 2

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  1. deleterious

    deleterious OT Supporter

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    Ok basically two buddies and I are going to be drinking with these two girls tomorrow. They both are kinda familiar with them whereas I have only texted one of them a little. This is pretty much gonna be every man for himself. Any advice on how to snag either girl instead of one of my friends?
     
  2. Viper

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    Yes.

    Don't try to snag either of them. Let them jump through hoops for the girls. You just go and have a fantastic time. :dunno:
     
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    Doesn't really sound found watching my friends get chicks while I 5th wheel it. :dunno:
     
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    wait for one of them to make a fool of himself. make fun of him and be charming in contrast. win.
     
  5. Viper

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    Do you really want to compete with people you call your "friends" for women?
     
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    thanks
    well truly only one is really a friend. and yes i know they will be competing with me so im just trying to get ahead. im not going to be a dick to them i just want to do well for myself
     
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    Don't go thinking you're going to "snag" either girl. Just go, enjoy yourself, don't expect anything, and maybe it'll workout in your favor.
     
  8. Viper

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    I'm just trying to show you the right mindset to approach for this situation. If you go in thinking it'll be a competition, then you'll be jumping through hoops to get a girl. If you go in thinking that you're just there to have a good time (and that it doesn't matter if you walk away with one of these girls, because there are 3 billion other girls out there), you're going to be much more relaxed and hence more attractive.

    I'm not saying that you should write these girls off to your friends. I'm saying that you need to get in the right mindset because when you get the right mindset you are far more attractive.
     
  9. deleterious

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    makes sense :bigthumb:
    ahh okay
    im a naturally competitive person :o

    your approach makes a lot of sense. thanks :bigthumb:
     
  10. JohnJohnJohnson

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    Totally agree. Sadly I am just about unable to do that. So I focus on behavior.
     
  11. Falconer

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    Just be cool.

    If your friends are all trying hard, youl'll probably be the more attractive one anyway (unless the chicks are low quality and are attracted to tryhard douche behavior, in which case they're weeding themselves out for you).
     
  12. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :werd:

    A guy just relaxing and having a good time and not worrying about getting laid is far more attractive than a guy who spends all night trying to outdo his friends so that he can have a warm wet hole for the night.
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Ignore them.
     
  14. Viper

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    :werd:

    Also, tap them with some neg hits, throw in a DHV or two, bounce to a couple of locations, and wear Axe Deodrant and you'll be swimming in their pussy in no time.
     
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    You constantly focus on how you're acting? Jesus fuck your life must suck. I'm so happy I can just act however pleases me and it is socially "profitable" for me the majority of the time. :mamoru:



    That PUA shit is dumb, yet I know so many people who think it's something you can actually practice. Seriously, I dont worry about "getting a girl" I worry about hanging around cool girls who's personalities mesh with mine. Basically what I'm saying is, if I were in the OP's shoes I'd go, scope the girls out, and if they are someone who I mesh with things will likely happen. If they dont then I simply let it go. Or, if I'm in an asshole mood and there are guys competing for them I do my best to get their attention just to make the hot heads jealous. :rofl: I've done some evil things to my friends.

    I mean hell, for all you know these girls aren't even looking for a hook up. I dont know the situation, but I hang out with chicks (even partying) with absolutely no intentions to hook up from either party.
     
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  16. Viper

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    if its just random girls with no strong feelings involved, why not?
     
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    I used to be like this. I didn't like it. Sure if you are a cool good looking guy women will land in your lap from time to time, but its being lazy and taking the easy way out.

    now i go after what i want.
     
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    Acting however pleases me is the most socially profitable choice I can make, for day to day purposes.

    If I have a short-term goal like the O.P.'s, that is the only way to achieve it. I have to just do what I feel like. Otherwise I am in my head and not in the moment.

    But for long-term goals I find that behavioral tweaks along the way can change my fortunes far more than attempts to fix my mindset. For me, fixing my mindset is always mental masturbation. The mindset changes may or may not follow the behavioral changes.
     
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    Are you serious?

    Thats the stupidest thing i've seen Viper post.


    When guys go out, isnt the point of hanging out with the buddies, or well, from man to man, is to see who can 'bag more girls' or 'get more girls'? I know with my friends when we see a group of girls we laugh and pretty much challenge each other to see who can/will close the deal.


    We must not be normal :o


    TS, do work. Dont seem to 'out there', just enjoy yourself.
     
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    Just gotta hope you're better looking than the other 2. :dunno:
     
  23. Viper

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    I was talking about a mindset. ;)

    You can go compete with your friends for girls.

    Or, you can go out and have a blast and let other people jump through hoops to get girls.

    Which do you think is more attractive? I've seen guys "compete" for girls and it's actually pretty sad to watch because it's blatantly obvious that that's what they are doing. :mamoru:
     
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    play strip poker and lose first

    pull your dick out after you lose

    win
     
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    Ok, you had me worried :rofl:.

    Totally agree, when its a 4/5 'ratio', obviously not showing through your skin that you wanna jump their bones is a good thing ;). Being reserved enough to let your friends talk and ruin their chances but still enjoy a good time = win.
     

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