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  1. DubOverdose

    DubOverdose New Member

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    :wiggle: ;) :) :wiggle:

    Liked her for 4 years, absolutely crazy about her now, finally had our first kiss tonight :wiggle: even though a good friend of ours isn't thrilled with it. BTW- over those 4 years, one of us has always been in a relationship until recently.
     
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    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    noice. how'd it happen? details
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    :bowrofl:

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    nice, man
     
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    yay

    Why is a friend not thrilled? Do they like you/her/or something?
     
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    It was our first date, went out to dinner, then out for a few beers. I said to myself "no way in hell im not making a move tonight". When we left & got in my car, I grabbed her as she was talking to me and went for it..shut her up real quick. I feel like I'm 16 again since I'm so excited about just a kiss...but it was my first time making a move since my LTR. This current girl & I have a lot in common- very similar senses of humor, political views, morals, etc. I have TONS of fun with her, more than I've ever had with a previous girl. She's probably more fun than any of my guy friends, too. That being said, the honeymoon period will be gone soon, I'm sure :hsd:
     
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    Worried about losing two really good friends if the girl and I have a falling out
     
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    It's always rough when mutual friends are involved.

    You have to decide if the potential of the relationship is worth it.

    Another thing to consider is, if these people are "really good friends" they wouldn't end the friendship because a relationship didn't work out.
     
  10. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    The honeymoon period isn't necessarily a period... Common sense is wrong there
     
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    Well, sometimes it can be rough when mutual friends go through a breakup, but it's nothing to lose a friendship over. Sure, sometimes if it's a bad breakup you may not all be able to hang out at the same time for a period, but eh, you friend needs to chill and be happy for you guys :)
     
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    it's a period for conventional relationships. you've managed to stay in it because your relationship isn't conventional, and very uncommon.
     
  13. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    No, I disagree. Common "sense" is non-sense quite a lot of the time, and this is just one more case of it.

    I'm pretty sure that the conclusion those researchers drew was not, "You must have an unconventional relationship for love to last forever."

    I should really have a link to the article readily available considering how often this comes up... :o

    If I get less lazy I'll repost it.

    But, yeah, there is a minority of couples - in traditional relationships - who don't out-grow the so-called "phase" of rapturous love. So common "sense" is wrong there.

    On a related note... common sense sucks. I'm pretty sure common sense would dictate that because I'm "unfaithful," I don't actually love Emily, which is fucked reasoning. :hs: Common sense advice for dating women is, "just be yourself." :hsugh: And on and on
     
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    sorry to hijack the thread, but how often are you and emily 'not faithful' to each other?
     
  15. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    don't want to derail again.

    I'll p.m.

    If you care for others' input we can always dig up that other thread about me and Emily (I think the word "narcissistic" is in the title)
     
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    Honestly, dude, you're going to step on at least 6 guys' toes when you enter a relationship.

    Like, at the very least 6. If you're in college, probably 600.

    And if it is a girl you already know, at least a couple of friends' toes as well whether they admit it or not. And if it's a girl you met at a bar or something and your friend met her that night too, he might have some resentment as well.

    Someone will always resent your happiness. Period. And some of those people WILL be your friends.

    Fuck it. He'll live.

    Yeah blah blah he'll talk shit behind your back but who cares.
     

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