Some background info in this thread: http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3320466 Figured I'd make a new thread since this is kind of a different subject and got a lot longer than I thought it would. This might be boring to a lot of people but this is all new and exciting to me So I went to another dance class today with that girl I met the night before, just me and her. I had noticed she had a wedding ring on which confused me since she seemed into me, I figured it was best to wait and feel things out rather than ask about it though. But until I found out I was just gonna treat her as a friend. We had a good time, at one point in the dance she felt my arm muscle and was all impressed by it, that's never happened before, nice ego boost for me, I just made the face and laughed. Afterwards I asked her if she wanted to grab some food, she said she'd make me something and invited me back to her place. We get back to her place and it's very small and looks like she lives there by herself so I ask her "Does your husband live here too?". She was kind of taken aback which is sort of what I was intending and then I mentioned seeing her ring and she says "oh I just use that to ward off guys", good news for me We just chilled out and talked for quite a while on various subjects. She's easy to talk to. I got into what I do so she knows I have money, we talked about religious backgrounds etc. She's christian which might be a problem for me depending on how devout she is but I didn't get more into it. Can't exactly ask her what her thoughts on pre-martial sex are without seeming like a perv. She also says she was dating a lot and decided to stop and focus on work and that was the reason for the ring. Then she asked me what I was hoping she wouldn't, when was the last time I was in a relationship . I sort of thought really fast over my options and ended up saying "its been a while". She presses me and I decide to just lie and say 5 years ago in college, and that I had been moving around a lot (moving around part was true). In hindsight I shouldn't have lied but I panicked, I think I should have teased her for wanting to know and just changed the subject, oh well. I sort of touched on various subjects saying things like "but theres a lot more to say on that so maybe some other time.". She seemed interested and was like "yeah we should do coffee sometime, I want to know about it." So after all that she asks if I want to go dancing with her again tonight, I agree but tell her I'm going to go back to my place to shower and then I'll meet her. On my way over there she calls me and tells me she ran into a friend and invites me for coffee. When I get there I told her she looks nice (first complement I've given to her) and that I liked her shirt, turns out she made the shirt herself so that worked out well We hung out there and just chatted for about an hour telling interesting stories, lots of laughs etc and it was fun, then her and I headed to the club. I had an amazing time dancing, just a lot of laughing and screwing around, we hugged at one point and things were just in general much more touchy feely. I sort of had to force myself to do this as it's not natural for me to be touching people. It felt pretty natural after a while though. She kept saying I'm learning really fast and some people complemented us on our dancing which was cool. At the end I gave her a big hug and we said we'd do it again. I just got home and she sent me a text message saying: "It was so great hanging out today, XXX. write down the steps when you get home if you remember and practice. you're awesome. 'night. " Wow what an awesome feeling it was reading that, nice to know someone likes you I like this girl quite a lot too and shes very attractive to me (maybe 7-8/10) I have no idea where to go with it from here though, just flying by the seat of my pants, I hope it happens naturally for the most part. Like maybe I'll be able to tell when a good time to kiss her is or something I dunno Sure is exciting though! Cliffs: Went on my first date ever with a girl and I think it's going well so its all very exciting to me. Don't know how to take it to the next level though.