We have been going out for about 3 weeks now. Heres the deal, I've been taking things slow with her so far but I'm stepping it up now. Well we were talking the other night about past relationships. She said she has only slept with one guy and she feels it was a big mistake because they had been going out for almost a year and after they started sleeping together the guy turned into a dick. So she is not wanting to move to fast for fear that if I sleep with her the same thing will happen. I'm willing to wait a little while (1-2 months) but I'm worried that this is only gonna get worst as we get more serious. Like 1 week into a relationship and you break up then no biggie, but a 4-5 month relationship is a little different to worry about things going south. I'm worried that a few months into it she is even more worried about having sex because she thinks I'll turn into a dick. Basiclly the longer I wait the harder it is gonna be to make happen. Anyone have any thoughts / advise on this one?