21 and still a virgin?

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  1. cxhatch02

    cxhatch02 New Member

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    im 21 and im still a virgin, is that bad? i haven't even dated a girl before, i've had a couple of friends, and when i do like a girl, and i try to ask them out, they kinda make excuses, unless they are really excuses... shit, i haven't even made out with a girl yet.. im almost 22.. any help or is this just the person i am? im not fat or anything im 5'6" 140lbs and cut/toned..:wiggle:
     
  2. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    welcome to short guy world.

    I wouldn't worry too much about the Virgin thing save it for marriage maybe?!

    Hmm the making out, I wouldn't worry too much either.

    Try getting out meeting a variety of people, you can always do the 1 night stand but I don't recommend it. My best suggestion is to be yourself and find a person that likes you for yourself. Don't try to play as some other guy cause you wont beable to keep up forever and eventually you'll hurt both yourself and them.
     
  3. spicaly

    spicaly Active Member

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    sounds like you need to get out and get some liqour in you... meet some tipsy chicks and take it from there :dunno:
     
  4. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    aka 1 night stand
     
  5. cxhatch02

    cxhatch02 New Member

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    i've had lots of liquor in me, i go to the bars with my friends often... it doesn't feel right doing girls that are drunk.
     
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    i never said you had to sexor em.... at least get used to kissing girls .... try setup a myspace page or something simliar its usually alot easier to talk to a girl online than face to face randoms off the street
     
  7. Asses Maximus

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    No there is nothing wrong with that. I was 20 when I lost mine. I have 2 friends 22 and 23 and they are virgins. You are not alone.
     
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    I was 21 when I lost mine. I't ok really.
     
  9. rkf76

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    is it bad? No, I wouldn't say it's bad. Seems as though you have a hard time with the ladies, I can relate to that. I'm on a dry streak myself.
     
  10. Coco Monkey

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    my friend's in the same boat, but he's 23. :mamoru:


    it isnt a big deal.
     
  11. cxhatch02

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    well, its not like i have bad luck with the ladies, i can talk to them in person, i actually talk to a lot of girls. sex just doen't cross my mind when im talking to them, like trying to get in their pants.. i've messed around with a drunk girl once, it just didnt feel right.. i could have had the chance to sleep with her, but i decided not to.
     
  12. rkf76

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    so what exactly is the issue/problem?
     
  13. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    yea wtf you worried about if you have the chance to get poon?
     
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    just wondering if it was bad to be a 21 yr old virgin.. if not maybe a 40yr old virgin.haha
     
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    sorry, funny not found

    I answered your question in my first post, buh-bye!
     
  16. TenzoR

    TenzoR She is hot hot hot

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    do you have like low self esteem or something?

    why should being a 21 virgin bother you?

    sex isn't everything
     
  17. rkf76

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    no, it's not everything. But at the same time, being a virgin at 21, and being male, isn't exactly anything to brag about......unless you're super religious.
     
  18. BoypussY

    BoypussY game over.

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    cxhatch don't worry about it. lot of people will claim that they're not a virign at your age but they really are. however, don't wait forever hoping to lose it to the perfect girl. virginity is overrated. females sould be more worried about it b/c the condition of their hymen will let you know if they had their cherry popped or not. for us guys, virgninity makes no difference in physical structure, its more of a mental thing.
     
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    not only a mental thing, but you know what they say........practices makes perfect.
     
  20. BoypussY

    BoypussY game over.

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  21. dubbsy

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    Bah, I've accepted it. (and I'm agnostic) :eek3:

    Going to be 22 in just under 4 months now and still a virgin. Hardest part about it is having friends that are obsessed with sex.... every time I talk about a woman around them, first thing they ask is if I'm going to or have hit it. Gets really old....

    Been oh so close, but didn't push the subject (and came un-prepared.. I mean what use does a guy like me have for condoms? :coolugh: )



    and besides, can't miss what you're not gettin! :rofl:
     
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    yeah right there with ya, 22 in oct, dunno, guess im not enough of an asshole =(
     
  23. TenzoR

    TenzoR She is hot hot hot

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    why do you feel the need to brag
     
  24. lauren

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    like everyone else says, i wouldnt worry about it. i dont consider it oa turn off or antyhing, and any respectfull girl worth your time wont either.

    i have a decent number of guys in my social circle your age or older who still have their v-card. and those that dont...well, thats why they call it getting lucky. if it werent for one really drunk girl or a silly hs thing, many of them would still be virgins.

    get out there, and give it a try. ask girls out, try to kiss them. try to make out. you never know what will happen, and the worst thing that will happen is a slap...but people dont do really do that anymore, so have no fear.

    realistically, they will kiss you back, and either continue, or politly decline.
     
  25. Fakesnake

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    lost it at 23. i don't even talk to her anymore. it was like a 2 night stand. my current g/f of six months loves the fact that i've been with 3 girls, including her. still still thinks that i've slept with more cause im not to shabby in the bed. i still have alot to work on though. here is some advice, just let things flow. don't rush into it either, i would have loved to lost mine to my current but hey. my friend respected the hell out of me cause i didn't go around banging random chicks. some girls like guys who have low numbers.
     

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