SRS 2 months out and still want to die...

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  1. 5secstrtcar

    5secstrtcar Spot you 10, give you the move and still hand you

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    Wtf do i have to do to stop hurting? I love this girl way too much to act like it isnt killing me.

    What sucks is I know there is nothing that can be done or said to make this go away. Damnit! This has to stop soon cause I cant take much more.
     
  2. LS Boy

    LS Boy OT Supporter

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    its all in your head bro. keep your head up and brush her off your shoulder. shes old, and its time for a new.


    the only way for you to move on if you LET yourself. im going through same shit and its been only 2weeks and every single day for the last week, im expecting her to call me.....but sure hell i aint gonna call her even though as much as i want to.


    keep yourself busy and do somethin you always wanted to do before.
     
  3. Jay Pheezy

    Jay Pheezy New Member

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    Well. There probably isn't much more to do than move on if you're sure it's over for good. Only you're gonna know how amazing she is and that's what will make it hard to move on, but you gotta be strong and do it. The best thing is to block her out completly, get rid of pics, im's, numbers, etc.. Even though youll still think about it, with time youll get better and find someone better.
     
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    stay strong bro! keep your eyes peeled for someone new and POUNCE!
     
  5. 5secstrtcar

    5secstrtcar Spot you 10, give you the move and still hand you

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    i cant let go. i feel like i am going to freaking die if I dont get her back.
     
  6. johan

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    You don't sit there and PRETEND you don't love her. Of course you love her. You'll probably love her for a while.

    What you need to do is KEEP BUSY. Go out with your friends, MALE friends and keep active doing fun things. Try not to spend too much time alone.

    Don't sit at home thinking over things, hashing them over and over in your mind.

    You don't stop loving someone by wishing it to happen. It happens all by itself, over time. All things fade.

    What you need to do is KEEP BUSY and help the time pass faster and in a more pleasant way. Keep your mind off her.
     
  7. 5secstrtcar

    5secstrtcar Spot you 10, give you the move and still hand you

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    thanks for the advice guys
     
  8. Girlsgone-Mon

    Girlsgone-Mon New Member

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    Hey take it from me..Your life isn't worth any other females life unless she is family...Damn i know it takes time and the six months of Prozac really did help...soo maybe its just your seretonin thats out and thats why your feeling soo down and low...
    Get help cause its hard to do it on your own..Your less likely to fail with meds..Cheer up things could always be worst...
     
  9. Create

    Create :free at last:

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    *sigh* Don't do this. It's unhealthy.

    Seek a professional, please. OTA can help but I don't think we've got what it takes to give you what you need.
     
  10. RenaultFreak

    RenaultFreak OMG

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    stay busy, get a new hobby....
     
  11. The Green Bastard

    The Green Bastard Click click click bang

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    My friend said these words once, "The best way to get over a girl, is to get under another girl."

    Blunt, but I followed his advice, and it kept MY mind off the ex in September. :o
     
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    Time. Time heals all. Plus try to stay away from that girl as much as possible.
     
  13. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    You have to much free time if you care about a girl that much.
     
  14. Sooka

    Sooka New Member

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    There are billions of women on the planet, you don't need to let one control your life when there are so many more out there. If it didn't work out then she just wasn't right for you. Keep trying to accept it and move on.
     
  15. Coconut Endo

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    A girl isn't always the solution; you have to be happy with your own life first.
     
  16. PuppyCat

    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    :bowdown: Well said. 100% true. I applaud you.
     
  17. Jadix

    Jadix The Nice Guy

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    This girl isnt the one for you. I know its hard to even imagine right now, but there are 3 billion other girls out there. This girl you're sad about now, is definitly not the best one for you.

    When I lost my last gf, it took me about 5 months to start smiling again. Just hold on, the pain will go away.
     
  18. 5secstrtcar

    5secstrtcar Spot you 10, give you the move and still hand you

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    I cant believe how much I love her. It just keeps growing and it isnt letting up at all. There are girls I could hook up with but dont want to. I cant even jerk off.
    This could last forever. Went to the doc and got some Lexapro and sleeping pills. I've dropped from 200-205 to 175 in this shit. I look like a crack head.
     
  19. Abomb

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    200 to 175 is far from crack head :p

    but on the other hand, 25 pounds is a large weight drop


    just gotta man the fuck up bro :nono:
     
  20. svetlanalemon

    svetlanalemon A little blood and vomit on the car seat...

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    associate with more people and realize this girl is a blot on the plane of the universe
     
  21. Boogieman117

    Boogieman117 PSN: Boogieman117

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    I'll buy you a subscription to OT:AH if it helps. :bigthumb: Just kidding.

    Follow any interests you have and bury yourself in them. If you seem longing for something that's not there, you're going down the wrong path. Think of the 'mirage in a desert' as a comparison.
     
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    Man I know how hard it is. I went insane for a few months.... always thinking about her... it ruined my life. That was a little over 2 years ago, now Ive got a new gf and I could never imagine wanting my old gf back.... time heals everything. There is no quick fix, you just have to do your best to bear the burden for a while....
     
  23. toeshoes

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    I feel your pain
     
  24. Jay Pheezy

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    Ahh I know someone who did that. He didnt eat for like 9 days when his fiancee left him until he finally fainted. After fainting he got back to eating and started moving on. Don't let it get to that point :sadwavey:
     

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