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  1. above & beyond

    above & beyond No One on Earth

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    1. Girl #1, i've known her for 2 years but have only chilled with her twice.
    2. Girl #2, I've know her for 2 days and I've only spoken to her twice.

    I was thinking of taking both girls to go shoot some pool, but I dont know if its viable as Im not sure how to handle both girls at the same time.

    any suggestions?
     
  2. HuskiRuski

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    not a good idea.

    1. they might feel objectified if they have to compete for you.
    2. you might be overwhelmed because there are two of them to only one of you.
    3. they aren't on the same playing field because you've known one of them longer than the other. this can make girl 1 think she's in the friend zone while making girl 2 feel threatened and intimidated.
    4. it's just hard to devote attention to two girls at once, especially in a public place. this is what wingmen are for.
    5. you're not on mtv.
     
  3. wdrentz

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    play them exactly the same.. and I would take them both out just not at the same time.. and don't feel awkward about talking to them both at the same time.. you're not a piece of shit, its just called dating.. now if something progresses with one of them then well... let your conscious be your guide! gl btw
     
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    above & beyond No One on Earth

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    then I think I will have to wait a bit more time until I take out girl #2 because I dont think she will go hang out with just me.
     
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    Then get a group to go...
     
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    Are you interested in girl # 2? If not, then that is what you get a wingman for.

    Either way, both at the same time is not a good idea.
     
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    above & beyond No One on Earth

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    im interested in both.
     
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    just take them both out separately and see what happens.. If they both end up liking you then the decision to choose and fuck someone over is always fun
     
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    Then why the fuck would you want to bring them both out together, at the same time with you.....

    Are you retarded?

    Date them both seperately and once you get to know the new girl you can decide which one is worth persuing in a great fashion.
     
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    it's not a date. it's just chilling, thats why i want to make it casual and fun.
     
  11. HuskiRuski

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    why would you want to just "chill" with girls who you are interested in, especially when they're both in the same place .
    chilling = a group. not 1 guy and 2 girls who he's interested in.
    date = a guy and a girl. or 2 couples.

    you're setting yourself to giving a lot of bad signals to these girls.
     
  12. XaPU!M

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    :rofl: Holy hell... ignore any advice offered up so far.

    Invite them both out, it's always fun.

    Here is why:
    1. they might feel objectified if they have to compete for you.
    2. they might be overwhelmed because there are two of them to only one of you.
    3. they aren't on the same playing field because you've known one of them longer than the other. this can make girl 1 think she's in the friend zone while making girl 2 feel threatened and intimidated and vice versa.
    4. You don't need a wingman, just help them help you
    5. can't think of what mtv has to do with anything.
     
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    worst advice ever. half of it actually hurt your argument and the other half didn't make sense.
     
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    Point out to me what hurt it and what didn't make sense. I was just trying to use what you posted which was bullshit.
     
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    fight fight fight
     
  18. XaPU!M

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    ^^
    1. They aren't going to blame him for that as long as he doesn't objectify them. Even if they think it how the hell is it his fault? News Flash: People hang out in groups that have different ratios of men:women all the time
    2. I doubt they'll be overwhelmed, do you often get overwhelmed when more then one person is in the same room as you? This one originally was more just turning what you said around... why would anyone get overwhelmed when there are 2 other people around?
    3. Both girls are going to be trying to figure out what the hell the deal is and where they stand. And to figure out where they stand they will have to test him, and compete against her.
    4. Reading > You, I said you DON'T need wingmen for this. Just play them off of each other.
    5. I'm being serious here: You may want to see a doctor (shrink) if being in the company of 2 people makes you overwhelmed
     
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    You seem to think women are made of TNT or something and will take you out if not handled properly. So more then one at a time would just be overwhelming and difficult.

    Write this down (and read it every morning when you wake up, and any time you are about to enter somewhere with more then 1 person): Girls are people just like guys
     
  20. HuskiRuski

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    your advice would be great if he was trying to become friends with these girls. but playing them off each other guarantees at least one of them will not want him sexually anymore, and it's likely that both won't.
     
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    ...how do you figure?

    If either one of them has interest in him they'll try to get that across to him, which will spark the other to do the same, on and on. What about this has to do with friends?

    And at the end of the night, as long as they dont become friends themselves if you want to date both feel free. They don't need to know what happened with the other girl
     
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    ideally, this could work. but it's MUCH harder to pull off than the conventional method.

    to the OP: if you want to try this, go ahead, but you probably would be taking a significantly larger risk to get a prospective reward equal to the one you would get from dating them individually.
     
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    Seriously, tried and true: Have a girl that has a slight interest in you, or you may not even be sure if she does or not, but want to find out?

    Invite her to a bar, just you and her (ibOMGWHYWOULDYOUGOTOABARWITHAGIRLALONEIFITISNTADATE :run:)

    Make your intent known at the bar, through actions not words
    If she shoots you down or reacts in a way that you didn't want walk to the bar or bathroom/just need an excuse to get away from her for a minute.

    Then go chat up some other girls, she'll come find you, see what you are doing and now she is confused (like the above 2 girls, not sure what your up to).

    And the outcome of the night will probably be what you wanted.


    However, there are 3 different outcomes.
    1. The girl doesn't have interest really, but just got caught up in losing to another girl. So you'll get to sleep with her that night, but maybe never again
    2. You find out EXACTLY how much interest she has in you
    3. She has no interest, and doesn't care that you are talking to other girls (but at least you are talking to other girls and can get their numbers and try it with them later:o)

    Now if any part of this makes you think I'm nuts for suggesting it then just get out of the thread. (For example: The part about just you and her going but it not being a date - this gets in her head, she wont know what the hell is going on, this is good for you. Or: Talking to other girls you don't know (Although a lot of guys like to talk big around here, I doubt many can get over their approach anxiety)
     
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    How do you grow as a person if you are afraid to leave your comfort zone? You would be absolutly amazed at how easy this actually is, and how much you'd learn. It's easy because the girls do most of the work for you
     
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