I've been going to meetings for about 6 months now, and feel rather confident in my recovery. However, I'm getting a little tired of the NA crowd in the meetings I regularly attend. So I think I am going to go on an AA crusade to meet some more young people, and mostly just to meet some girls my own age. Is it wrong for me to pursue girls with like a few weeks clean? When is it really deemed 13th stepping? I met this newcomer that has like 43 days clean, and she seems pretty cool so far. Anyway, I find more identification in NA, but I can still go to AA. I'm a pretty nice guy, and don't usually come on too strong, so I'm not too worried about it, although I've seen some pretty sick people that go to meetings JUST to hit on girls, sometimes girls they know have boyfriends. Anyway, my main question is, what is appropriate as far as meeting the opposite sex in places of recovery. Is it really wrong to go to AA meetings just to meet girls? I already get my recovery at my home group and a few other NA meetings, but I got a little extra time. How do those in recovery find the balance between being a prick 13th stepper (whom we'll call Gordi) and never meeting any girls. Thanks.