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  1. Evil Unicorn

    Evil Unicorn Lurk but Don't Touch

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    So the plan was to have my house to ourselves. :naughty:
    We never really set a date or anything, I just told him I'd like to get him alone in my house sometime soon. So this week the family is going out and I found a babysitter for my little girl, meaning I will have the house. But come to find out, he might be going to take pictures of his father's band while they play. No biggie. I told him about how I will be having the house to myself if he doesn't go he can join me. He says that sounds 'Enticing'. So I think this might actually work out. Then today he tells me he is still going, and that its a private party, by invite only but if he can invite me he will give me a call. GREAT. Just what I wanted to hear. Like I really wanna go stand around at some person I don't even knows party. No, I wanted to get fucked and spanked like the bad little girl I am. After finally deciding on doing something else with a girlfriend, since he will be busy anyway, he asks what time should he come over?! WTF :squint: Why does he do this. I mean really.

    This damn man cant make up his mind.
    So I am still unsure but :x: this will become a very enjoyable night. After all this BS, he is in for it when he gets here tonight. Grrrrr.
     
  2. RockChick

    RockChick New Member

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    its's funny isn't it.... so many men complain about the low sex drive of their gf's... and then if you wanna have sex, "get fucked and spanked", they wanna do something else... happened to me too.

    i don't get men... sometimes.
     
  3. Evil Unicorn

    Evil Unicorn Lurk but Don't Touch

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    Yea and they say We are the complicated ones. I don't think we are alone in that boat.
     
  4. HoodRich

    HoodRich Professional Street Nigga OT Supporter

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    spontaneous sex == sexy
    planned out sex != sexy
     
  5. AndNineteen

    AndNineteen G!zMo's High School Pic

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    Men are silly, Im a guy and I'll admit it, we do some dumb shit. Maybe he promised is dad? I dunno, seems silly to not go to a beautiful girl with an open crib.
     
  6. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    You already have one kid.... didn't you learn anything from the experience? Life isn't about getting fucked, maybe he doesn't want to end up living Kanye West's gold digga scenario....
     
  7. Cerridwen

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    :rolleyes: Do you know how their relationship is? If they want to have a baby? If they are taking precautions? :rolleyes:
     
  8. Cerridwen

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    :wtc: I completely don't understand that either.
     
  9. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    :o.... but i have to admit tho... i'm sorta the same way. i'm more horny when i'm not in an exclusive relationship :sad2: kinda sucks...
     
  10. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    No, I'm just saying.... obviously she has a kid and lives with her parents; that to me is indicative of someone with a sordid past, and perhaps he's trying to avoid becomming a part of the drama.
     
  11. Evil Unicorn

    Evil Unicorn Lurk but Don't Touch

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    It's not like that at all. He loves me and my daughter very much. There is no 'drama' for him to worry about.
    I moved back in with my parents to help with the finances. My mother has been outta work for two years.

    You should get to know people before you judge them.
     
  12. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    LOl:rofl:

    Im the exact same way. I dated this lady for about 18months on and off. Whenever we were on a break or either one of us was straight up seen other people. The sex seemed to be more intense and kinky. Go figure.
     
  13. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    :rofl: :werd: i've always been like that... :o i gotta get rid of that habit :mamoru:
     
  14. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    Im sure (read- hope) it will come with time. Right now I seen to be able to control one of my two downfalls which is hooking up w/ girls that are taken. Damn morals get in the way. now If I could only lust a girl as much as when i have herr than when I dont have her, I'll have it made. I think is the raunchines and the social perception that its wrong that makes it sooooo luring. I'll admit to REALLY enjoying some Dude's girl is willing ot jeopardise their relationship because of me. not to mention its also a little power trip to bang her brains out and then send her home to her man. I feel like Jayz when he sings "is that your bitch"

    Uh, yo don't get mad at me
    I don't love 'em I fuck 'em
    I don't chase 'em I duck 'em
    I replace 'em with another one
    You had to see she keep calling me BIG
    And my name is Jay-Z
    She be all on my dick
    Gradually I'm taking over your bitch
    Coming over your shit
    Got my feet up on you sofa, man
    I mean a hostess for my open hand
    You coming home to beer shifts and there be soda cans
    I got your bitch in my Rover man
    I never kiss her, I never hold her hand
    In fact I diss her I'm a bolder man
    I'mma pimp her, it's over man
    It's over man, it's over man


    Yo, yo.. why you home alone, why she out with me?
    Room 112, hotel balcony
    How she say Jay you can call the house for me?
    There's no respect at all
    You betta check her dawg
    She keep beggin' me to hit it raw
    So she can have my kids and say it was yours
    How foul is she? And you wifed her
    Shit, I put the rubber on tighter
    Sent her home, when she entered home
    You hugged her up
    What the fuck is up?
    She got you whipped, got your kids
    Got your home, but that's not your bitch
    You share that girl, don't let 'em hear daddy Earl
    It'll make 'em sick that his favorite chick
    Ain't saving it, unfaithful bitch


    You betta keep her away from my balling clique
    Keep her out of nightclubs all in the mix
    From hanging out with chicks who be swallowing dicks
    From catz who order Cris play the floor with the Knicks
    It can only lead to something unfortunate
    Hot boy like Jigga man scorch your bitch
    Play the floor dot Jigga man go first
    Then we all rock till we all hot
    You know the boy from the Roc got them whores on lock
    Got the bitches in the smash
    Making yours drive fast
    Do we get more cash than the average nigga?
    All dem hoes like damn I gotta have this nigga
    Cause I'mma hot black, how in the hell can you stop that
    You can fuck mine
    How the hell can you knock that?
    I'm just playing the cards choosenly
    Jigga man who ya supposed to be?
     
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  15. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    probably because when you're in a relationship you both feel secure and there's no reason to "catch" the other one.. but when you're not dating then you're on your best behaviour so you have the option of getting them back :)

    the easier-said-than-done answer is just to avoid the "so how bout it" "yeah ok" bit without turning it into a ridiculous amount of game-playing where both parties are being coy with each other.
     
  16. Evil Unicorn

    Evil Unicorn Lurk but Don't Touch

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    You know.. sometimes I wonder if he gets tired of me being so horny so much of the time. :dunno:
     
  17. Kinks

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    perhaps try being a bit less forward with him? "i've got the house to myself, come over so we can make like bunnies" can be a turn-off if his libido isn't primed and ready. also, maybe he likes to initiate things when he feels interested in having sex, hence him being a "maybe" until he'd decided he was up for it.

    In that situation you could have just asked if he wanted to come over, without implying any 'festivities'. Then if he does you just hang out until something pops up. Sometimes you have to accept that this tactic won't work, but at least it doesn't make things feel overly planned.
     

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